do you like the people that you love?

I perfectly understand you there!!! I love my sister, and I used to admire her so much that I'd do everything she did!! Now I've grown out of it, and I'm not sure whether I still admire her or not... I'm trying to lead my way into life by being the best person I can be, and I sure don't agree with a lot of the things she does... However, when it comes to your partnet, I believe that you should like/admire the person. My ex had the crappiest job I could ever think of; it was so boring and useless!!! I never took him seriously when he talked about it because it was just so bad, in my opinion. Although he kind of liked it, he's now going to get a new job, after being there for two years (see? I told you it was crap!) Now my new boyfriend is doing something that's extremely interesting, basically being "behind the camera". He helps coordinate all the people that are required to film a movie, a TV set... anything. I'm positively amazed by his job and I'm really proud of it for him, so I'm 100% sure it's necessary to admire the person you're with in some way or other, otherwise you just wouldn't love them quite the same way.