Be smart when it comes to picking out a dog, please?!
By sylviekitty
@sylviekitty (2083)
United States
February 14, 2007 7:18am CST
I was just answering a discussion about "what would you do if your dog bit a child?"
Frankly, I find it disturbing how many people are like "OMG! KILL IT!"
It seems to me that if (some) people gave the whole process of buying a dog a bit more thought, this wouldn't be as much of an issue.
Hello- Do some research! Get one that statistically gets along well with children. Get advice from books, from breeders, from families with those types of dogs. Don't buy a dog just because it looks cute- you have to know something about it before you make the commitment to care for it.
Don't buy the type of dog that you keep hearing on the news has mauled an old lady, attacked a 3 year old, killed a mail carrier, etc.. Common sense, people! And as much as we want to rescue dogs who have been abused, you probably don't want that type of dog around young kids. It doesn't take much for an abused dog to go into "freak out" mode, and attack or bite.
And ok- what if the dog bites? WHY did the dog bite the child? Did the child provoke it? Was the dog hurt, and just protecting itself? How bad is the bite? Are you telling me ANY kind of bite warrants taking the dog to the pound to be put to sleep? If it was a freak thing, and your child only needed a couple stitches, is it really THAT big of a deal?
I'm not killing an animal out right, just because it bit my kid. I'd have to really look at all the circumstances. I'd also make sure I was being a responsible pet owner AND parent to begin with, and not owning a dog that didn't "fit" with my family.
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@7nicole1 (1633)
• Canada
15 Feb 07
Some of what you say is true but certain breeds shouldnt be classifeid as dangerous like pitbulls. I have seen my fair share of rottweiler attacks, germany sheppard attacks and even a bullmasiff. It depends on the owners who are raising them. Why all the sudden in say the last 10-15 years is certain breeds all the sudden classified as dangerous? They were'nt before a few attacks made it into the paper. I don think its the breeds people should be lookng at before getting a pet, I think there should be some kind of test and licence pet owners should have if raising certain kinds of dogs that are dangerous. I have had my pitbull for 4 years now and this dog is the biggest suck ever the only time she would ever attack is if someone was to run up to me or my family and even then shes just doing what she suppose to and thats protecting her family.
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@sylviekitty (2083)
• United States
15 Feb 07
I'm not saying all pit bulls are dangerous. And obviously their owners have a lot to do with how and why they are that way in the first place. But I also personally am not going to run out and buy one, to have around my young children. You mentioned German Shepherds- now, I only have positive experiences with them. And from the website listed above, they actually do quite well with children. They're loyal, loving, protective, etc.. I don't recall ever being bitten by the one I was around as a child.
My point is, you do need to make informed decisions about getting a pet. You should find one that generally speaking, is a good fit for a family with children.
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@not4me (1711)
• United States
15 Feb 07
There are websites out there that can help people pick out the best breed. Like the Boxer is the best breed for kids yet not everyone out there has kids, so these people should know their dogs and train them if they misbehave. As far as killing, if the attack was unprovoked, I think it is probably a good idea. If you had children I don't think you would want your kids to be around a vicious dog.
Here is one of the sites I was talking about.
http://www.dogbreedinfo.com/children.htm
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@sylviekitty (2083)
• United States
15 Feb 07
Actually, the people who live behind us have two young girls, and they have a boxer. The dog is rather ugly and intimidating to look at, but she seems really sweet. Hyper when she sees my cats, but very sweet. My son loves sticking his hand through the fence and letting the dog lick his fingers. LOL
Thanks for the link!
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@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
15 Feb 07
Good Comments. I would blame the owner, not the dog! They bite for a reason, it could be lotsd of things. Lack of training is the most common.But some breeds are just unsuitable to have around children.
No way do I agree with putting down a dog for biting, especially if the dog was teased in the first place.
@monkeywriter (2004)
• United States
15 Feb 07
Stupid computer wouldnt let me post this.
Anyways. I have a maltese, not great for little kids. I'm not married yet. She wont be 5 till June and will live at least another 10 yrs. I worry how I will deal with kids and her when I have them.
Sometimes it cant be helped. NEVER kill the dog. They usually arent the cause of the pain. I'd say get rid of it if its something HUGE.
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@makamania20 (274)
• India
15 Feb 07
okay ur feeling towards pet dog is really nice enough but we cant judge dog if it wont b infected by virus before buying i think!!!so no body will kill cute dog before any unavoidable circumtances i think,everyone loves cute dog!!!sometimes it happens tht we have to kill dog before it harms more children!!u know tht dog bitting is harmful to human!!! actually i bought a dog which was well trained n vaccinated but wht happened someday it was caught by Rabbies n i had to killed it!!!!so makinag judgement before buying cant ensure u get good dog.
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@andiwpd (142)
• United States
14 Feb 07
Ok, but what do you do with a dog after its bitten. You can research until your face is blue, but still, there's a biting dog somewhere. While researching is the best way to approach the whole concept of extending a family with a dog, it's not a surefire way to secure anyone's...security. I'm with the masses on this one, it should be put to sleep, and if I owned a dog who deliberately attacked or mauled anyone in a vicious manner, child or otherwise, it wouldn't even make it to the vets office, I'd just shoot it myself. I don't mean to sound vicious myself here, but there is no room for a dog of that nature anywhere. A dog that bites is unpredictable at best and poses a serious danger. I'm not talking about puppy play that might become a little agressive, all puppies use their teeth to some extent, and might even draw a little blood if you're proactive in puppy play alongside the pooch.
@sylviekitty (2083)
• United States
14 Feb 07
Just because your dog bit once, does not necessarily mean it's now a mangy mutt who now has the taste of human blood and will continue to go after you or your children! if your dog was repeatedly biting people, if this was a dog who had an obvious aggression problem, and who would be likely to bite again, then that might be a different story.
Wow. Glad I'm not a dog. Glad you're not my owner.
@rainbow (6761)
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14 Feb 07
I love my dog far more than that, if she bit my kids it would be because they really hurt her, she has put up with the two little monsters harrassing her from before they could walk, she just gets up and leaves the lounge when she's had enough.
She might get a smacked bottom if she bit one of them but to be honest she's an angel and it would be their fault.
If people could kill their pet so easily then they shouldn't have one in the first place.
It would be different if it was a really bad maul or it became regular and she was out of control but I hope we never get to that stage. I love her too much to even think about it, don'tthink she would she's 13 now and very gentle just a lot slower than before, sob.
@sillygirlsd (959)
• United States
14 Feb 07
My mom was bit by a German Shepard. She was walking down the street and the dog just went straight to her and bit her leg....Dog's like that should be put to sleep. If my dog bit any of the kids that come over to my house she would be put to sleep. I'm not talking about a playful bit I'm talking about a bite bite, like piercing into skin bite. My dog is very playful, she grabs your arm with her mouth and some kids consider that biting....I don't! But if she did cause harm to anyone and I knew my kids couldn't be safe near her I would have to put her to sleep instead of giving her away and making her someone else's problem.
@4monsters4me (2569)
• United States
14 Feb 07
I agree. We don't have any dogs but we had 2 cats when my older children were babies. One we had gotten when I was 8 so he was quite old. He scratched my daughter (then 2) on the face. I did not go out and have him put to sleep. I had no idea why he scratched her and I assumed she was bothering him and he just wanted to be left alone. So I just tried to keep them apart. Then a couple weeks later he scratched her again. So my warning lights went on. I kept an eye on him every time he was in the house. Then a couple days after the second attack I watched him as he laid on the chair sleeping. My daughter went up to him, bent down so she was face to face with him and said "kitty". He opened his eyes, looked at her for a second, then took a big swipe at her face.
That was it. It was obvious she wasn't doing anything to provoke him. I picked him up by the scruff of the neck and tossed him into the basement where he stayed for several days (that is where his litter box was and where he slept--I put his food on the top step). I talked to my dad and we decided it was time for the cats to go. It was a hard decision because they had been my mom's cats and she had loved them so much, especially the one that was doing the scratching. I didn't want to do it but I couldn't trust him anymore.
@mytwo_daughters (2663)
• United States
14 Feb 07
I couldn't agree with you more. My kids and hubby want a puppy/dog, but our house is not clean enough, and my dear daughters don't keep their rooms straightened up enough. So therefore no dog. No cat either, even though we could really use one at times....but I have asthma soo I'd rather not ...in any case...I agree....Now as for dog biting...I love animals...I love dogs...I do...but I am always a little leary of them. I was bit as a kid. I didn't do anything in particular, just knocked on a neighbors door, and the dog came bounding out after us, and sprang the door open. He might have freaked, but ouch! My mom didn't do much for me, looking back, I realize, I didn't have the greatest mom in the world, try as she might. There were times she was downright cold. The dog was not put to sleep, it didn't break the skin, but I was terrified from then on out, and she did little a relieve my fears.
@tammyr (5946)
• Etowah, Tennessee
2 Mar 07
I think their is a difference in a dog that has bitten a child and one that attacks a person. I have a dog that has snapped at a couple of small children as she is small and they move quickly and do not realize that they scare her so. I do not blame her so much as the child or the parents for not teaching them to not run up to a strange dog and try to pet it.She also tried to bite the groomer because he did not listen when I told him she was scared and did not like her feet touched, he just grapped her up and held her foot with out so much as a word or pat, did not even let her smell of him first.I really wish she had bit him!LOL He was so rude to her I will not go back.
I keep her away from anyone she does not know and especially small children.
I also had a dog that went mad when she had her pups. She bit a boy once, but he tormented her and got to close to the end of her run and she could reach him and defended her self. She got worse and in the end had 3 high schoolers cornered when she got loose. We had to put her down. She got hit running crazy and the vet said due to her injuries and behavior that would only get worse it was best to put her down as she may one day bite even us. It was hard to do but for the best. This is an isolated instance that I would agree the dog needed to be killed, as she attacked a group of older kids and she was also badly injured.
To kill a dog that has attacked for no reason is completely different than killing one because it snapped or even nipped in defense.
Even if you research a breed individual dogs are different and you may find a border collie that bites,(mine was a border collie mix)and you could find a pit lets children ride it like a horse. While breed does play a huge part in behavior, upbringing also lends a hand to their personality.
@smkwan2007 (1036)
• Hong Kong
14 Feb 07
Animals have emotions just like human does. So once a dog of any breed is angry or annoyed, it may attack. I think it is hard to be 100 percent sure which type of dogs is better to be with children. We need to educate both the dog and the children. Because if a naughty child keeps nagging a dog, then there are dangers that it may attack its young human friend. Also dogs owners or guardians should note the biological conditions of their dogs. A pregnant dog may become emotional very easily. When such things is going on with your dog, you should keep the children away from it until things get better.
@monkeywriter (2004)
• United States
15 Feb 07
I'm sorry to say I dont think the type of pet I own, a little maltese, will ever be great with kids. I read about that recently after I've owned my little love of my life for almost 5 yrs (birthday in June.) I'm sure she will live till at least another 10 yrs. By then I will have had some kids. Yeah I dont know what I will do when that happens. I do NOT intend to get rid of her of course! I'll have to work through it...
Children do provoke dogs though. Even I do it, and I'm not a kid! But yeah something I will oneday have to deal with. truthfully
@butterflydawn (297)
• Canada
14 Feb 07
I'm with you. I certainly wouldn't rush out to put my dog down just because it bit a child. For starters, as responsible dog owner, I am careful to train my dogs, and to keep a close eye on them when small children are around. If I had a dog I was unsure of, I wouldn't leave it alone with small children for starters. When my own children were small we did get a dog from the pound that had been abused. For the first year we were very careful with her, and taught her to be gentle and loving. We discovered that the only time she even gave any indication of possibly biting was if she was cornered so after that we just made sure to watch her and warn her and give her lots of love. I had my own children, as well as did child care and the children were taught to leave the dog alone and to respect the dog as well as one another. If there was any doubt, the dog was put in another room for a short while but she also learned that even the suggestion of a growl was wrong. We had her for 18 years and she never ever bit anyone because we took the time to make sure she was ok with anyone who came around. Most dogs can be taught right from wrong, especially if they receive the love and care they deserve.