Men's hesitancy to get married.
By misscandle
@misscandle (7)
Indonesia
February 14, 2007 8:38am CST
I did a research when I was studying in a university at Yogyakarta about Men's hesitancy to get married. At first, I was thinking that men are gentle to ask with his fiance to marry with him as a cute prince on the fairy tale for a little girl like Cinderella Story. At the time when I was doing my research, I knew that a part of the men around us getting hesitancy to get married based on many reasons but I know that most of the men on the world be affraid to get married with many kinds of the reasons that they have. The point of the reasons is the commitment in a marriage. I just want to know for sure, is there a man who are not getting hesitancy to get married? I can not answer know because most of the men around me getting hesitancy to get married now even they are mature already. Mature has a mean that they have a good life already and good mentality to get married. Is there anyone who can tell me why the men doing that "story"? if there is someone who can tell me that a man is not like that, let we see the fact later....
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5 responses
@tambangmas (342)
• Indonesia
14 Feb 07
Based to what i know myself, men are hesitant to married because they afraid of commitment and responsibility. They enjoy living single.
But of course, there also many factor why men are hesitant to marry. Financial situation for example.
@Modelcoy (184)
• Philippines
14 Feb 07
Hello, here's a fact. Im didn't hesitate to get married immediately infact I was excited to get married. So, to answer your query, actually, the reason why men are hesistant to get married is not just only because of having many kids but how to raise them. Financially and Psychologically, some or most men that I know are not ready yet to face those things of raising kids but what I do know abouty marriage life is not because of having kids but by two loved ones together as one caring and helping together in one life. Marriage is very sacred and it must me fully cherished with one another and not to be the reason of having children. To have children in a family must have a very strong foundation of love, caring and understanding. Once they are fully, financially, psychologically and mentally stable enough to understand life of a family, then there's no way that any man would be afraid to get married at all. I know I do. Until now me and my wife are still trying to have kids for a year now. Now, how wierd is that?
@richardjames (166)
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14 Feb 07
I think that young men prefer to play the field and have fun with lots of different girls before settling down. Women tend to look for that special person earlier in life but then we all know that girls mature sooner than boys. Some men remain boys all their lives. And this is coming from a man. A married man..
