For the single girls, What would you do if you found out your boyfriend was ....

Laugh my butt off and dump him. I really don't think thats something I could deal with ever.

I would probably freak out. I don't feel as though I would be able to continue the relationship either. I think in order to be with someone who need to have some kind of attraction. I definitely don't find men in womens undergarments attractive.

we would not be together any more but i would remain friends with him. yes, i would help him dress if he asked

I would have to talk to him first. If he tells me he is straight and he just likes to wear woman's clothes, I would be okay with it I guess.I would need to get use to it.But if he says he is gay, we would have to break up. Maybe we could be friends in time but I don't know.If he says he is bi-s*xual? I guess we could still go out.I would need some time to get use to it.If he loves and respects me, it could work out.

it happened to me a few years ago. he was a very nice man. but he wanted to wear my beddress and wanted make-up on. when i woke up,it was so strange... he wearing my sexy beddress and with make-up on!

I would say BYE BYE as he was flying out the door with my shoe up his butt.

gosh.. i will surely freak out! it's just a natural way for me to respond to such a revelation. the boy i had been dating is actually a girl. ehhe. anyway, i won't date him anymore but i think i will keep him as a friend. but nothing more to it. .. anne

LOL that wouldnt phase me at all...in fact I have an ex who (just for my amusement mind you) would run around our apartment in this one pr of sexy panties I had LOL it was priceless....I've also been known to wear my mans underwear in some of my relationships (theyre so comfy LOL)..

Well...Last year i understood that my first love, i thought about him as a fatal macho man, is in fact transgender and wears ladies`s clothes too. I accept it normally. I dont plan to have serious intimate contact with travestite or transgender, but i can be really a good and very understanding friend to him.

I would be quite disturbed but i think i would try to see past it? But you can never really tell until your in that situation and hopefully i never will be!

Well, personally I am not into that, so I wouldn't stay his girlfriend anymore. I could be his friend, though. I wouldn't be closed to a friendship and hanging out or enjoying movies and going places. I just couldn't have a relationship beyond friendship because it is not a turn on to me. I like really masculine men, and seeing them in lingerie would not be masculine. I would prefer that they were wearing something manly if they were going to dress up. To each his own. I don't hate on people that are not like me.

I have known quite a few crossdresser in my life...very personally. It is not about who is right and who is wrong. It is about the kind of life you want to lead. It does a number on your life. Some crossdressers really want to be woman. I do not think they are all the same. The kind of life I want to live would not include a husband or boyfriend who is a crossdresser. However, as a friend, that is different.

this is a great topic, i am not single, i have been with my boyfriend for the past 3 years and we have a 3 month old daughter together,one day he didnt have any clean underwear and he asked if he could borrow one of my thongs, i kinda looked at him weird, but i was like okay...so he did, and i was weirded out big time by it, but since then, he just loves wearing my thongs, so much he bought his own, it was a bit weird, but i know hes not gay, i just learn to try and get past it, i have my moments, but i know hes very in love with me and if it makes him happy, i need to deal with it, see my latest discussion...it goes with this as well..thanks!

I don't see anything wrong with it women wear guys clothing so what is the difference? I think I would like to dress my sweetie up in women's undies and stuff. But then I have several gay friends and I love to see them all dressed up they look better then some women do in these things. I wouldn't dump a guy cause he dressed in womens clothing. Might make me a little excited though to see him all dressed in women's sexy panties.

If that were the case id freak out!He is clearly GAY!Id stop seeing him and maybe in time if we can be friends, id be his faghag....we'll share beauty tips,go shopping and go boy watching.

Why is that what you do? heheheh Im just fooling around with you. I dont know what I would do I think I would have to tell him to knock it off. And if he didnt then I would tell him to hit the pike.

I know I couldn't handle it myself; I'd probably just ignore him completely and tell my friends I dumped him for cheating on me. May as well make HIM look like the bad one in the relationship, rather than let them know the truth. I have a friend whose father is a cross-dresser and she is so personally offended by this that she can barely speak to her dad sometimes.

to be honest i don't really know i think i would freak out and i am not sure if i could carry on seeing him, but i have never been faced with this situation so can not tell you what my true response would be and i do hope that i am never faced with it

i make my hubby wear my undies its so sexy and its fun... when we were still boyfriend/girlfriend and he sleeps in my house i let him wear my undies after he takes a bath and dressups!

Wow! I dont think I could deal with it. Especially if he looked better than me! I have to be the prettier one and definately could not be in a relationship with someone who was prettier.