do you have high standards?

Yes, I used to, too high in fact. I liked things to be done perfectly. I will not stop unless I'm sure everything are to my satisfaction. Like for instance, I don't want to see any single stains or clutters around my house. In dealing with friends, I always have high expectations with them. But when a friend betrayed me, I fall hard. I really don't know why. My personality and behaviours are either hot or cold. Never lukewarm. But now I'm 35, I had learn how to balance my standards with the people close to my heart. I learn to accept their flaws as well as they accept mine. If there is one standard that still remained with me, it is my house. I'm really a sucker for cleanliness.