Women + many men= a not so nice term
By Kaeli72
@Kaeli72 (1229)
United States
February 14, 2007 2:59pm CST
Why is it...that when a woman sleeps around with alot of men, she's considered a "not so nice term". Yet, when man sleeps around with alot of women, he's considered a stud and praised amongst his peers? Why is it that when there's an unwanted pregnancy, it's the girl's responsiblity and final word as to what happenes to the baby, yet the boy has no say in it?
Why isn't the boy lectured about what they should and should not have done that night? Why is it that teenager girls in highschool who are pregnant gets the short end of the stick, yet the boys/fathers get to live their lives the way they want?I think society needs to put the responsibility on both the female AND male. It takes two to tango.
What are your thoughts of why this is the way it is?
1 response
@kadugudi (200)
• India
14 Feb 07
When you SAY "I think society needs to put the responsibility on both the female AND male. It takes two to tango. What are your thoughts of why this is the way it is? " You have answered the Question what you have asked.
What i say is FIRST it is a "FEMALE" who initiates every thing; and the Male takes a ride from then on. Normally without the girl's concern nothing is initiated.
@Kaeli72 (1229)
• United States
14 Feb 07
I just wanted other people's thoughts on this as it's been a major subject for me.
And...I beg to differ on your remark about how it's the "female who initates every thing; and hte mle takes a ride from then on." HAHA! What kind of girls do you know? I was raised that a woman takes a meeker tone and attitude with the male. In my experience, it's the males that initiates everything. My husband complains I'm not agressive enough and I tell him, "I don't need to be. You start things all on your own."
Men's drive is on the outside of their bodies. Women's drive comes from inside, next to her inner organs. That's why it takes females longer to "get into the mood" than men.
All I'm saying is that it's not fair for the females to get the bad reputation when the males play a part in it as well.
