Why is it that women don't like guy's like me?

Canada
February 14, 2007 5:02pm CST
I don't beat them up, I don't call them bad names, I let them pick what they want to do to have fun, I enjoy hanging without with them. When you go to make a move on them or ask them out ALL you get is I wanna be friends. Whats up with that?
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@sonnet (164)
• South Korea
15 Feb 07
Heh, you tell us what you DON'T do but maybe you need to focus on what you DO do, or at least should be doing. Maybe that's where your going wrong. Look number one sexiness factor for me is CONFIDENCE. It doesn't necessarily translate into the most amazing soulmate type relationship but it's what initially attracts me to someone. So don't let the rejections get you down or it will feed a pattern! Feel confident in who you are and your own worth.
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@aweins (4199)
• India
15 Feb 07
i think u havent met a right kind , till now. lol. :-)
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• United States
14 Feb 07
Some women just don't have taste in men. Or they tend to fall for the wrong guy. Just like I did. Shame.
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• Philippines
15 Feb 07
Not all that we like, we can get. Maybe she's not meant for you. Just enjoy life. Maybe the girl that you want will come sooner. WElcome to myLot.
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@smkwan2007 (1036)
• Hong Kong
15 Feb 07
You must be one of the picky ones who like the hottest and most beautiful girls only. Otherwise there must be some girls who is longing to be your girlfriends. You know, beautiful girls always have many dozens of admirers. They just don't have time to mess around with a guy whom they don't seem to be familiar with. Try the girls with the face and heart like angels' and you will lead a more enjoyable life very soon.
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@yana0806 (565)
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
Maybe they only see you as a friend! Don't worry! Just enjoy being nice to them!
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@Stiletto (4579)
15 Feb 07
Well I can think of a few possible reasons - maybe they think you're too good to be true because they've had bad experiences with men in the past, maybe they don't know a good thing when they see it, maybe they genuinely ARE just looking for friendship, maybe you're continually approaching the wrong type of woman. It could of course be that you're not making your intentions clear enough at the start. From the way your question is worded it looks like you're hanging out with them first (letting them pick what they want to do, etc) and then making a move/asking them out. Sometimes that might work but a possible consequence of that approach is that they get used to seeing you as just a friend rather than a potential partner. I have men that are just friends and I could never imagine viewing them in any other way - not because there's anything wrong with them but it would feel "wrong" to change from friendship to something else. The bottom line is you've obviously just not met the right person yet so don't give up - it'll happen one day! Oh and stick with being a nice guy - there's nothing wrong with being nice!
@nannacroc (4049)
14 Feb 07
Maybe you try too hard to please. Be yourself and the right person will come along when you're least expecting them.
@classy56 (2880)
• United States
14 Feb 07
are you asking girls that already has a boyfriend?you sound like charming guy.maybe you are not meeting the right kind of girls.alot of girls has diffrent taste in men.so dont be in a hurry,im sure the right girl will come along for you."who knows, maybe the girls you ask out arent good enough for you" keep looking!
• Philippines
14 Feb 07
Aww, don't worry about that. The right woman for you hasn't come around you yet. Just wait and then all will be just fine. There is also a probability that she's already around, however you just failed to notice her. There now, take a look around you and happy hunting.
• United States
15 Feb 07
I'm sorry to hear that. Well, all I know is that there should be a chemical reaction (which we can also call physical attraction) between you and the woman to ignite a spark. I guess you just haven't found the right one for you yet, and the women you have met were either craving for excitement or just too doubtful about your intentions (if you're being too good to be true). Don't worry, you'll surely find Miss Right.
@cf44867 (42)
• United States
14 Feb 07
Maybe the girls you have talked to recently are a lot like me. A good guy is too good to be true! When someone treats me the way I "should" be treated I don't know how to act. Keep giving it a go and the right woman for you will come around when you are least expecting it!! Toni