Would you allow your kids to be become child celebrities or models?
By kitakitts
@kitakitts (188)
Philippines
February 14, 2007 6:26pm CST
Admit it or not, we have become stage moms one way or another. The moment you see your child shine makes you proud and say, "That's my kid!". But would you seriously consider your child having a career in the entertainment field as early as day 1? Would you like your child to be featured in a TV ad for a baby bath soap or endorse a formula or other baby stuffs? Are you prepared for your child to be associated with a certain brand? How will you handle the stress brought upon the busy schedule on your child?
We've seen what happened to some of the child stars we know. Others burned out at an early age while some survived the pressure and expectations of the public and turned out ok.
There are always pro's and con's but will you take the risk for your child? Please share.
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22 responses
@marian_o9 (980)
• Australia
15 Feb 07
i wouldn't take the risk... i wouldnt want my child to be exposed to the world and have their every move published in a magazine. i want my kids to have their own privacy and grow up with friends because they like who my child is not because they want their money...
however i would like to see my child shine n they'd be perfectly capable of doing so in a school play or at a dance recital. there are ways to let ur child shine without exposing them to the world and risking changing their future for onewith no privacy... but thats my opinion...
i hope i answered u rquestion ! =) if so pls rate ! =D
take care
@kitakitts (188)
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
i respect the fact that you do not want to compromise you and your family's privacy for showbizness :) i agree, school plays and recitals are also great options where our child can shine minus the hype and publicity of showbiz :) thanks for posting, yes i have rated you a plus :)
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@ethanmama (1745)
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
If he truly enjoys becoming a model, I would support him. But I would not push him. In fact, I would try to discourage him from being in showbusiness. We reach an age wherein we're going to have work and pay taxes...why expose our child too early? I'll let him enjoy his childhood to the fullest, without the pressures of performing and earning in addition to the pressures of school.
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@kitakitts (188)
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
i agree, they grow up too fast and i hope they enjoyed an easy childhood :)
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@yanple (164)
• Philippines
16 Feb 07
if given the chance, i would love to see my baby in those cute commecials and baby magazines. because that would only mean 1 thing, that my baby is adorable, and i will surely be proud of that.
but in the long run, of course, you have to set priorities. education must be first, the rest will depend on time management.
but in their early age, they shouldn't be forced to work. unless that they really love what they do.
@ag_abscruzmd (2283)
• United States
15 Feb 07
Should I be given the choice, I wouldn't want my kid to be in showbusiness. But if my kid REALLY wanted to be in showbusiness (lured by the klieg lights, so to speak), then I shall be very supportive of him/her. I think I'm the type who wouldn't become a stage mother because education is of utmost importance to me (being a teacher). I will guide my kid through it all, teaching him how to organize or set his priorities right, and to balance his time. Studies first. If the latter suffers, no showbiz. I'm also amenable to babies being put in commercials. Actually, that is even better than when a kid gets to gradeschool. Still, I just hope this doesn't happen to me later on. I want a simple life and a normal one for my kid.
@kitakitts (188)
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
there is nothing wrong with wanting a simple and normal life for our kids :) same here, i would want her to prioritize her studies as well :)
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@kitakitts (188)
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
i must admit, sometimes when i see babies in tvads can't help blurt out, my baby's cuter. of course, i'm biased and that's my prerogative LOL
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@ldmagat (24)
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
NAH.... I guess, I'm more of an overprotective mom than a stage mom. IF the time comes and our daughter wants to do so, i will support her. but for me to endorse her at an early age, i guess i won't.
thanks for this question, it actually made me think.
@krislouiebaby (2346)
• Philippines
16 Feb 07
yes why not, i am dreaming of my kid to be a young superstar,
i want him to be a singer or an child actor,LOL
but in case he will be...then i will be very proud of him,
i will be a stage mother, and give him my full support...
that's my boy,,,my pretty boy...LOL
how about that???
@selina0625 (1379)
• Philippines
17 Feb 07
That would be too exciting if my son would appear in a bath soap commercial or to become a superstar someday, but I wouldn't want that for my kid.I want my kid to live a normal,happy,healthy life. I don't want him to be exploited as a lot or most of the celebrities out there.
@kitakitts (188)
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
like i've said, nothing wrong with wanting your child to live a normal life :)
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@brihanna (381)
• United States
15 Feb 07
I think that I would have my baby in a commercial or print, or infomercial. But only if it was compatible for the both of us. And worth the money. I don't think that the tv, movie, or modeling are a great way for a child to spend his youth. And the baby beauty pagents? Forget it. You see these little 3 year old girls with make-up and heels and jewelry-no thanks-let them be girls. They will be competeing for beauty soon enough. I think is sends a poor message to our young children, to be rewarded for beauty.
@kitakitts (188)
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
i agree, i prefer children/kids dressed up but not made up. they have brilliant eyes and beautiful smiles that are great enough without any makeup on :)
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@bethmt (419)
• United States
15 Feb 07
I wouldn't have been very keen on letting them become a child actor or model, but if they'd really pressured me to let them try it I might have.
When I was about 8 years old my mom decided to enroll me in acting lessons because I was so shy and she thought it would be helpful for me. I thought the lessons were fun and then when I was 9 I started doing some modeling for catalogs which I thought was even more fun, maybe because I was a ham at heart. I went to auditions for commercials but never got into any and did acting in plays too. Honestly it was a great experience but I remember some of the kids who's mom's were really driven and pushy. Luckily my mom wasn't like this as far as my acting and modeling were concerned. She saved that for when we were at home. :)
There's a good and bad side to it and if a child does go into acting the parent really needs to be a good advocate for them and pick up on any cues that the child doesn't want to do it any more. Another thing is with modeling, the parent should always be there keeping an eye on things because there are some photographers who aren't ethical, if you know what I mean. Nothing bad ever happened to me when doing modeling work but I know that it can happen.
@kitakitts (188)
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
true, acting lessons provides wonderful opportunity for our child to overcome their shyness, relate to others and express themselves more. great to have your point of view here, it matters since you yourself have been in that situation :)
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@irmee0718 (6)
• Philippines
16 Feb 07
It would be exciting to see my child/children star in a commercial. It only comes once in a lifetime but I know my children will not stand long time with kleig lights.
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@im_anna (717)
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
probably many people might not agree but i am not giving them the option, therefore would not allow my daughters to be in showbusiness. there are a lot of ways to earn a living, but just not showbiz. maybe, if we lived in europe, since it's the center of the arts, i would re-consider. but then, we don't live in europe, so definitely not.
@jodyliwanag (151)
• Philippines
17 Feb 07
When my daughter's baptism picture was posted in the pictorial studio where it was taken, I'm a proud mama! Up until now, whenever we go to the studio, I still find myself gaze at my daughter's picture, even if that was a year ago already and she looked differently now. I guess, there is this inner joy from mothers when they see they kids being featured. I can probably take up until modelling only but I'm now sure about show business. I'll be totally upset hearing bad publicities for her. And I can't take those sweet child actress before becoming sexy stars now. I don't want that to happen to my daugthers. Hmm, but that is my personal opinion now. If my kids would want to be an actress someday, I would still definitely support them but I'll make sure that they finish school. It boils down on the parents upbringing. I don't want them to work to earn a living for us, instead, I just want them to enjoy what they do.
@leedug (920)
• United States
16 Feb 07
I was just watching some earlier on VH-1 about this. It talked about celebrity kids, and how their entire life was affected for the negative because of that lifestyle. I don't think I would let my kid get involved in the business at such a young age. It is already tough enough on kids, and it just seems to me that that would make it even harder for them. It's like making them into an adult when they clearly are not. Of course, if given the opportunity, I cannot say for 100% certainty that I would turn it down. It would all depend on the hours, the contract, etc. I know I would NEVER have my child working full time each day as a celebrity, and in a lot cases, that is what is required.
What bothers me the most is when the parents decide that the money that the child is making is theirs for the taking. Aaron Carter ( Nick Carter from Backstreet Boys younger brother) was on the show earlier. His mom took almost all the money that he worked so hard for over the years, reducing her own son to something close to slave labor...Very Sad!
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@KrisNY (7590)
• United States
15 Feb 07
If my daughter wanted to try out now at her age (10) I would allow her to. If she made it, I would run her whereever she needed to go. I would not let her at the younger ages... I often thought about signing her up for modeling as a small child.. Alot of people commented on how precious she is. I almost wish I did now-- I think it would have helped out in the self-esteem department. I would rather she model than be a tv star... But then again after watching Lindsey Lohan and the Olsen twins and how much trouble they have- I'm glad I didn't.
@kitakitts (188)
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
exactly my fears, seeing how those childstar turn out makes it very discouraging.
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@XxAngelxX (2830)
• Canada
15 Feb 07
I don't think I would have a problem with my babies being in commercials however I think I'd want to put a stop to it once they were about a year and a half. I think it's too much work for a child and puts way to much stress on the child. However I also think it would be great to see my baby on t.v. lol. But as I've said I think I'd put a stop to it before it became a full time job. I want my children to lead normal lives, not one that involves all that work at such an early age.
@Lonely_star (11)
• United States
16 Feb 07
I would only put my child in this kind of thing if they really wanted to if it was their choice, I wouldnt force them to do it. And only acting. I wouldnt let them do modeling at a young age. Besides little girls shouldnt be dressing like that and wearing makeup at that young and age.
I dont know if I really would want my child getting the attention from acting, everyone knowing who they were possibly writing threatening letters, having to hire a bodyguard.
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