do you keep secrets????
@krislouiebaby (2346)
Philippines
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@TonyaBarton (89)
• United States
15 Feb 07
Something has to be drastically wrong for me to voice it to my husband. It isn't even because I can't talk to him, because I can. I just prefer to keep most things that bother me to myself.
In trying to analyze why that is, I've concluded that it is primarily due to my up bringing. I often times just feel like I can work through it myself. That is probably at least a part of why anyone who withholds information does it. On the other hand, I have also concluded that another reason that I don't "spill" my disappointments or frustrations is because, I don't want to be "labeled" the nagging typical wife. I take pride in being anything but typical.
If it's important enough, I will speak up but, then and only then. I enjoy the laughter and affection between us so much more than conflict.
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@grammabean (74)
• United States
15 Feb 07
Secrets? There is something that every single person has that they don't want to (or can't) tell anyone. Why do you think that writing is so therapeutic?? You can put on paper what your tongue can't say!
@mridula123 (734)
• India
15 Feb 07
well..i keep a lot of secrets..once i tried writing them down on a book i kept personally, but then my cuzin read it once..and i stopped it ever since..yeah.about telling things to friends..i've faced that too..sometmies i feel i shouldnt hurt them, other times..i feel it just is of no use..n yes..most miportantly..keeping things to oneself isnt safe for our health!