When Cheating Happens
By greenmango
@greenmango (1019)
Philippines
February 15, 2007 4:22am CST
Cheating happens when you start looking for what
you dont have.
Somewhere along the way, you will meet someone
who will be more charming or sensitive than the
one youre already with. more sexy. more
thoughtful. wealthier. better in bed. and you will
meet someone who will need you and pursue you
and go loco over you more than your
boyfriend/girlfriend ever did. because no
boyfriend/girlfriend is perfect. because your
boyfriend/girlfriend will only have 90 percent of what
youre looking for. So, cheating happens when you
look for the missing 10 percent.
Lets say your girlfriend is melancholic by nature.
You may find yourself drawn to the pretty girl next-
door who has a cheerleader laugh no matter what
she says: I broke my arm yesterday, ha ha ha...
Or because your girlfriend is a couch potato who is
always in pajamas and smelling of garlic and
cooking oil, you may fall for the D&G-Light blue-
smelling colleague who comes to work in a sharp
pinstripe blazer, high heels, and a red pencil-cut
skirt. Or because your boyfriend is the type who
never shuts up even when youve tried using duct
tape, your heart may skip a beat when you sit next
to a brooding, mysterious Latino on the bus.
but wait! Thats only 10 percent of what you dont
have. Dont throw away the 90 percent that you
already do! add to the 90 percent the 100 percent
that represents all the time that you have been
with each other. The storms you have weathered
together. The many adjustments you have made to
better understand each others little quirks and
idiosyncracies. The wealth of memories that you
have accumulated as lovers. The old sparks that
can always be rekindled by the walk on the beach,
barefoot and underneath the stars...
Cheating happens when you start looking for what
you dont have. but faithfulness happens when you
start thanking God for what you already do.
2 responses
@Deelicious (362)
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
If you find out that your partner is cheating on you, talk to him and confront him. Its best if you two talk and find out whats wrong. This way you can still fix your relationship. My boyfriend is kinda cheating on me(emotional infidelity), its kinda hard but Im talking to him soon.