a place to hide?
By tantie
@tantie (4)
Philippines
February 15, 2007 5:40am CST
i am so fed up with my life.i feel like im gong to give up.i am a mother, a wife, a student, a sister, and a daughter all at the same time.my sons' assignments need to be checked.my husband asked for a shirt.i need to submit my school requirements on time.my brother asked for some money.and my mother is sick...where will i go now?
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10 responses
@jeraldanmarie (472)
• Philippines
17 Feb 07
calm down sis. we both came from the same country and since you have computer and internet connection try to read daily readings on bo sanchez on line website www.kerygma.com everyday read the daily readings, watch the topic discussions, it will help..
second go to a spa and relax, after that solve a problem one at a time... I'll be praying for you
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@palina77 (1177)
• United States
15 Feb 07
Life is not a bed of roses, you are leading a real life as you are a mom, wife, sister, a student. You are an warior of life and fight with boldness as a brave warior. Problem comes together but never last for long time. Once it will over due to you wise deeds and patients - look ahead, do not hide to a dark place like coward.
@spangle (88)
•
17 Feb 07
Life has a way of sneaking up and taking a huge chunk out of you every now and then.
It's really easy to say breathe easy, take some time for yourself, the problem is, finding the time, I know. It's tough, but if you can, just take a second or two, no longer, mind or you'll fall behind! ( See you need to keep your sense of humour ),
just count your blessings as it were. I know sometimes you must feel that everyone needs a piece of you, but you have people that rely, depend on your care, attention........in that aspect alone, you are lucky.Cherish these people. Your life is rich.
@kpbhuvana (392)
• India
23 Feb 07
i think every women has this responsibilities, dont take them as burden . Think that you are a super lady and can handle a lot of situation at a time. Think of those who have a lot of sorrow in their life , noone to share their feeling living alone. Feel happy that you have such a big family to share you feelings. Always think positive, think about the people who are below your level not able to get or earn their daily living . Then you would feel that your life is such wonderful.
@smartnrich (1067)
• Malaysia
15 Feb 07
The best thing for your I would suggest:
1.Discuss with your hubby about your task at home, maybe get a maid to help you.
2.You also could discuss with all your sibling about money problem and you mom.Make a rotation for take care your mother.
3.You can discuss and share you problem and find a way to settle it here at my lot. Welcome to mylot, enjoy you self with knowedge, friends and your earning.
@Moneymonster (38)
• India
15 Feb 07
I solemnly understand the tense life u are leading and ur day to day problems and the burden u are carrying everyday..which makes u very unhappy..But it is a fact of life that u canot simply stay happy if these problems of yours gets solved...
That is life..!!
U r always going to have new new problems everyday..so the only way out is to stay happy in spite of the problems u face..can u do that now..?
No its not possible..but that can be made possible if ur consciousness level increases..which can be done by receiving deekshas...
Better check out where u can receive deeksha in ur locality..or if u need a permanent solution for all problems in your life..btr take a holiday and visit Oneness University in India..THEY guaranteedly completely change ur life and make u into a new human..
After that u will hav problems but u will easily move out of them in a jiffy..u will always stay happy and in bliss unconditionally..
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@GardenGerty (160949)
• United States
17 Feb 07
Find something that is totally yours, and do it. Be firm, let these grown ups be responsible for themselves. Only give your brother money if you can spare it and if you are prepared to never receive it back. School for you has a tight deadline, encourage your son to work on his school work while you work on yours, and you can talk about his answers, however, he needs to be responsible for the initial work. Does your husband want you to buy, make, wash, or iron a shirt? Is the real truth that he wants more of your attention? How sick is your mother, terminal, or something that requires long term care, or something that will pass with time, whether she receives care or not. Break these problems up, so that you do not feel so overwhelmed. How much time do you have left in school? Put it on a calendar, so you can mark it off.
@classy56 (2880)
• United States
15 Feb 07
this is just all minor things things,your life could be worse...#1 just tell your husband to get his own shirt an #2 tell your brother you dont have any money an #3 put your mom to bed an have her to check your son assignsments.. an after you do all of that you can submit your school requirements."sounds easy dont it..lol just relax an dont get stress out.
@cradleOFjheffd (920)
• Philippines
15 Feb 07
I think you need to relax a little. Remember that you can call God for guidance. Relax and pray. God bless and welcome to myLot.
@thomson201 (209)
• Australia
17 Feb 07
it sounds like you need some time to yourself find somewhere you feel comfortable and go there take some time out and relax try the beach, a lake or a park somewhere like that
