worst valentines day!
By naadia
@naadia (828)
India
February 15, 2007 12:10pm CST
i don't cared about valentines day for 16 years.but last year i had fallen in love with a boy who was my best friend!we celebrate 2006's valentines day with a fresh lovers feelings.he was my first love!we went for cinema,went to park,spent one of the best day in my life with him!the best valentines day in my life.i was very happy.and i thought i am the luckiest girl among my friends.whenever i heard some breakup stories ,i prayed ....not to happen in my life!
but now ....!we broke up due to some misunderstanding(i don't know the reason yet).i thought that on valentines day i will meet him and talk to him!i bought a gift for him....but when i called ,he not even respond to my phone.then i went to his house,but he was not there...i waited for his bike's sound ...till night
at 9 pm i saw his bike in front of his house.but i cant go because its late!i again called him but ....!slowly i realized that we are splitting forever!oh god!
i called my friend and told all things,she told me that if you stay home it will be difficult.she suggested me to stay in college hostel for 1-2 week.then i will slowly back to my life.but i don't think so,i cant forgot him...he is my first love...can you forget your first love?
whatever i am going to stay in college hostel this week.if they permit i will go tomorrow itself!i just want to avoid meeting him.
and goodbye mylot for 1-2 week(may be this is my last day in mylot)thanks to all friends who really care me,who gave some advices,i miss you all!and thanks "pat" for the poem.i hope i can use it later!
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14 responses
@amjee3940 (31)
• Pakistan
17 Feb 07
hi friend.i know now can forget his/her 1st love..but it will realy take lot of time to bring u in ur normal life,i know dat its the one of toughest n i must say more near to impossible to forget ur love
i love a girl who is the girlfriend of some one she is very nice and kind to me,i cant do anything,i will have to forget her but i cant,,,,i m helpless..
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@mosolyny (106)
• Egypt
16 Feb 07
Naadia, you have to forget this love due to we haven't care about persons who neglect us.
the life has a lot of situations which will be forget yourself not your boy friend only.
but we have to learn from our situation so don't farway with your feeling until to be sure that this thing is true and not just for fun.
in the future when you will meet someone who will take your heart, you will be forget this person so try to take your life easy as before as you don't meet him before (like restore to your life).
hopping to you a good life with a good person.
takcarew for yourself
@pinklilly (3443)
• Australia
16 Feb 07
oh Darling sorry you had a sad Valentines Day.. You will never forget him but will learn to move on...
It's better to have Loved than not Loved at all.... Everybody goes through break ups and there never easy but you learn to cope and move on... Start over....
I hope things pick up for you soon you will meet someone eles and they will tret you like Gold just be patient, You need to experience this in order to grow from it and become stronger....
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@heavenschild (4777)
• Canada
16 Feb 07
I agree...I have now been married for almost five years but I had a lot of bad relationships as a teenager. I also had a couple of good relationships but in every case he was the one to leave me except for one really bad one where I woke up and left him...
But yes, it is a learning and growing process and you can move on from a relationship. The best thing you can do is to have a positive out look and move on. Live, love, laugh, and be happy...There is the perfect guy out there for you but marrying young is over rated! I was 25 and I thought that was old but it's not because maturity is good to have going into marriage... So there is no rush, enjoy being young! :) Hope you come back soon!! :)
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
15 Feb 07
I am so sorry, it is hard anytime to lose a boyfriend, but on valentines day, it really sucks. I have two stories I have written about valentines day, not sure how to post them here though
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@Bbilal (1998)
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19 Feb 07
Very sorry to hear about it, I prayed alot for you! but I failed praying from my heart. I know loosing your first love is what you feel. I suffered from the same condition a while long back and I'm feeling the same thing you're feeling right now, I can only say forgot everything and move on as the life has to go on! Forgot him thinking that it was a dream and you're out of it. Hopefully, God will help you in this regard and he is the only one who has created all of us. So wait for the right time :)
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@philipwu51 (684)
• China
26 Apr 07
first love is always sweet and seems eternal in everybody's heart, you know why? because you dont marry him of her. so, everything you can recall is good memory, if you marry your first lover(actually,its nearly impossibel in real life), you can find that your first lover is far from perfect.
so, its better to put your first lover in your heart.
have a good day.
@jain_bangalore (3136)
• India
25 Apr 07
oh thats very sad...thats the reason i ask everyone not get involve in any kind of relationships.
@Serjas (2328)
• India
28 Feb 07
it is sad to hear you broke up.but i think it is good because you can now understand what is real life and this love.i dont have any girl friend till dat.i dont want to.i have many friends among girls.i like few girls nature.others are just for money and ice cream.
you can easily forget him.i am not telling that you go for another.don't do that.at least you are a musilm girl.now you concentrate on your studies.and i hope you can enjoy hostel life!
@theone3nu (598)
• India
16 Feb 07
oh i felt very sad on hearing ur love story. so try to talk with him once again. i wish u all the best.
@hijas007 (1386)
• India
16 Feb 07
that so sad..i already know your story from your previous posts!it is sad to hear you broke up.dont worry..you are a smart and beautiful girl!you have to forget him and enjoy your life!and hope you will back to mylot soon!
@shan20us (272)
• Pakistan
16 Feb 07
ya i know your sad story due to your last post and feel so bad about that boy even i am a boy but i can't think like this and this is not true that every boy take a girl like a t-shirt even i dont
anyways be brave and face the life and come back soon
have a great time and enjoy your life and try to forget your past life and live your future
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@lastcrush2003 (379)
• India
15 Feb 07
hey same here friend,this valentine was really the worst one for me. i spended the whole day in my home not a single thing was to do.
