Shopping for men?? Shopping for lady??
By xabimaru
@xabimaru (340)
Malaysia
February 16, 2007 3:02am CST
These questions came out when i went for shopping at the mall recently and saw this situation where a couple/ parents went for shopping:
1) Why do usually men never go along (i mean accompany) women when they are selecting things to shop? Is it too boring for them?
2) What do actually women think of men who don't accompany them shopping??
3) Do man really hate shopping and is it tru man usually wont select through item fist and just take the item come to their eyes?Please help me on this? Which one is right and do you have your own opinion about shopping??
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7 responses
@luping0513 (127)
• China
6 Mar 07
yes,I often shop something for my parents when i'm back home.Because i must work in the otherside.I have little time to care for them.
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@jimhuo2008 (572)
• China
26 Mar 07
so ,you need more time to share with your parents, maybe you are very busy,but parents to you is most important, no them no you. you know? Am I right?haha
@chiquitita (1226)
• Indonesia
18 Feb 07
LOL Not really. My dad always accompanies my mum when she's shopping. It's not totally true. Men also enjoy shopping, but with different interest, of course. If you go to Ace Hardwares, most of the shoppers are men. Men are crazy about tools and women are crazy about let's say cosmetics. The only thing that makes men refuse to shop with women, it's because the different interest.
@xabimaru (340)
• Malaysia
18 Feb 07
Well you got a point there dear. Usually sometimes women do need another opinon just to make sure their choice is right. Yeah, i aslo went to the hardware department a lot and sometimes just to see what new product that have been realease out.
Do you think men whho went shopping (accompany) women makes them more attractive to the other women eyes??
@xabimaru (340)
• Malaysia
18 Feb 07
Well you got a point there dear. Usually sometimes women do need another opinon just to make sure their choice is right. Yeah, i aslo went to the hardware department a lot and sometimes just to see what new product that have been realease out.
Do you think men whho went shopping (accompany) women makes them more attractive to the other women eyes??
@jackie_mmm (886)
• Philippines
16 Feb 07
those men who love shopping are probably gay. It's an instinct for most men to work and later enjoy the intimacy of wives or friends. They're not supposed to go shopping all day long when they should finish some work.
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@xabimaru (340)
• Malaysia
16 Feb 07
I do agree with man have to finish work and later enjoy with wives and/or friends. So that's prove that many man avoid accompany their wives/partner when she do the shopping.
Is it all men enjoying shopping are gay?? And is it why man always pick straight away the item without selecting it like women does??
@Yestheypayme2dothis (7874)
• United States
6 Mar 07
When it comes to shopping men and women are different. Men are hunters and women are gatherers. Men like to get into the store and get what they want quickly. Women like to look around and see what they can find...bargins, neat things and new items to try. As far as how women feel about men not shopping with them, that depends on the women. They are all different in their feelings. Some women do not like to be rushed so they would rather not take a man with them. Some women must have their husbands with them, but with those kind it is like that with everything. They want their husbands to accompany them everywhere. I see women on the cell phone in the stores while they are looking at merchandise asking about colors, sizes and styles. I cannot imagine myself doing that. I make decisions based on what I like. If he does not like my taste then he is free to do the shopping. However. I usually do not get complaints unless the item is electronic and not compatible. Personally, I do not care if mine goes with me or not. He would rather read than shop. No problem here.
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@jimhuo2008 (572)
• China
26 Mar 07
I think you must a beautful ladies, I don't want to be hite by women from all of the would, just wanna say few words for men, in my experience (1) when we go shopping on a big mill, you can see , ladies garments must be more than 70%,and men's I think at least 30%.and women's always colorful, but you can see, men's always that few color and design.(2) men always think , I can do lots of things ,so they shopping will soon finished when the goods is chosen.but women always think maybe next shop have a garment more beautiful than this one.
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@laurika (4532)
• United States
20 Sep 07
I don't think it is only with man.It can be also with woman or it is with me like that.I don't like to accompany my fiancee in shopping while he is interested about other things like me.He would just look to some screw-driver for half hour and I really don't need that.I rather go in that time look for something what I am interested about to buy.
