What is the biggest problem you encounter in your relationship?

@vangie79 (198)
Philippines
February 16, 2007 1:46pm CST
Share your biggest problem you encounter in your relationship and how did you resolve it?
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11 responses
@flickz (626)
• Malaysia
16 Feb 07
not honest and chaet.. for me this a big problem in relationship
@vangie79 (198)
• Philippines
16 Feb 07
I agree. Cheating is the most problem in any relationships.
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• India
16 Feb 07
yup i also i agree cheat is the biggest prob in any relationshp
@coolcager (496)
• Costa Rica
22 Feb 07
sometimes he/she didnt trust each other... and cheating but i dont cheat. bleh
@vangie79 (198)
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
right! your gf is lucky ha!!! lol
@hmike_d (1529)
• Philippines
19 Feb 07
Well, as a married person, we've been through lots of problems that we faced just like any other couples in here. And it wont last a day that we can't resolve it. I have this one, actually this is not a problem in a relationship but is a cause to such.... the time that i seems like lose almost everything. I lose my job, i lose my small business and i almost lose myself because of those. Yeah, I never realized that it has been a cause of our relationship as a family to be unstable. There is an instance that I almost neglect them and so we decided to "cool-off". Because it seems like I am so hopeless during that time. I thought i really can't move on. But then, they let me realize that i was wrong. So, there are good people around me who took my arms and started to walk on. There, I found out how i missed my partner and my kids as well. I now know that staying away from them would be a hell to me. I just want to say that in order for us to solve or resolve our problems in life or in a relationship, we must have an open window to let in the sun's rays to brighten up our dark rooms.
@vangie79 (198)
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
It's nice to know that you always fixed and patch-up things in you marriage. Everyone has their own dark side of life but in GOD's grace everything is being settled.
@centurian (453)
• India
16 Feb 07
till now not faced such an situation and hpe not 2
@vangie79 (198)
• Philippines
17 Feb 07
good for you centurian... wish u luck!
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@imsilver (1665)
• Canada
16 Feb 07
The biggest problem in my present relationship is that I'm with a guy who has almost every girlfriend cheat on him at one point or another. He thinks that because all the other women did it, I'm going to. And it's an issue that we haven't resolved.. lol.. we just kind of deal with it as it goes along. I work really hard not to give him any reason to worry but sometimes it's little things that get him started - like I say I'll be back in an hour and don't come home for a couple hours. I try very hard not to but sometimes it happens. I just try very hard to understand why he thinks the way he does and work with it. And I tell him all the time that I'm not like that but it's gonna take a while to prove that to him.
@vangie79 (198)
• Philippines
17 Feb 07
I think he still have the trauma that girls usually do to him before. Just be patient to him and you will gain his trust from him... He need to trust you but just give him time for that... wish u luck!
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• United States
16 Feb 07
The biggest problem that I encounter in my relationship is probably boredom. We have only been married for 5 years and sometimes we both feel bored with each other. We talk about the times we used to long for each other when the other wasn't around. So many people cheat because they just want to feel wanted again. But even after one cheats, the 'newness' goes away with that one, and perhaps they cheat again with someone new. I wish we could long to be together again, with the same desire as in the past. To resolve it, we just spend time with our kids, and forget about our selfish ways.
@vangie79 (198)
• Philippines
16 Feb 07
I wish you luck! Realizing of mistakes always comes late. But you still have time to patch up things for your kids... Goodluck Jen!!!
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@777330975 (331)
• Sri Lanka
22 Feb 07
The biggets problem that We have is boredom, and lack of topics to talk about. Also sometimes we do find not enough time to spend with each other. We both are working as well as have two kids. With the little time taht we have sometimes we end up watching the television because we have run out of interesting topics to discuss. In the end we talk about work related issues and then make up for it.
@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
22 Feb 07
being jealous and leaving the partner from away from me..it's hard for me to have that relationship but i make sure that everyday we talk through chat and writing emails..and i think, communication is the best way to resolve problems in a relationships..
• Canada
16 Feb 07
Boredom or no new topics left can be stated as problem in my relationship right now...we ve a daughter...if the topic is concerning her,my husband is all ears n if i try to talk abt something else concerning us,then he doesnt pay attention.... NOw he realises this too so we r working on the solution..
@stibigirl (291)
• United States
16 Feb 07
The biggest problem that I have ever encountered in my marriage is by far my in-laws. I have never gotten along with them and I still don't. When this problem first started I would argue with my husband about how he had to be married to me and not to his parents, but that never worked. So I stopped talking about their abuse altogether and let it go. Because I stopped he started to stand up for me, he realized that they really do treat me bad and has caught both his mother and father saying things to me that are just not right. Didn't know that shutting up about it would let him see it clearer, but I am sure glad that it did.
• India
22 Feb 07
Well i have not come acroos this situation in my life. But i surely think it hurts a lot in rest of life. This may be due to some missunderstandings or some that type.