learning the hard way...
By fairygreen
@fairygreen (533)
Philippines
February 16, 2007 8:22pm CST
some people claim me to be snob and not really friendly..this is basically close to truth, coz i used to have fears and anger in life, but ive learned that if i have to live up with my wrath and it wont end, i know i wouldnt be happy.i let go of my wrath and i set myself free, i used to wake up and realize that life is really unfair coz others took ur intentions as bad and they seem not to appreciates it which actually hurts me so much and really cost me tears and pain and even heartaches.but not anymore now, gone are those days that im so weak to handle such situations.tough learning it the hard way theres always a lesson planted for everything that is bound to happen..stop blaming others and refrain from recalling the past coz u can never go on with ur life and most probably that was life was all about.
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6 responses
@gracey_celine (106)
• Philippines
19 Feb 07
it feels great to learn somebody overcomes difficulty in life. although we naturally enjoy laughter more than tears, we would have to accept that most of the wisdom we've gained along the way, we owe to sad times :)
@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
8 Mar 07
Yeah I have been called that also because I don't say alot when I first meet someone because I have to know them better.
@jananisatyajit (37)
• India
19 Feb 07
hey! you are a brave girl/guy. you are right! You have to learn to live life on your own terms. Finally, its your life and you have to make your decisions. Sometimes, we learn the hard way round....and mature overnite with the experiences. wish you all the very best in life.
@charms88 (7538)
• Philippines
19 Feb 07
Sometimes we need to put on our tough exterior for the simple reason to cover our insecurites, flaws, fear of rejectin, and so on...but with this experience, we learn how to slowly come out of our shell and realize that we grow stronger and wiser. I aplplaud you for your transformation. And we should not always blame other people for whatever happened to us. Good luck...
@jcvernz (477)
• Philippines
19 Feb 07
it is on difficult time you came to realize the best in you....to know your inner self and discover who really you are in those falling times...but rising up in every falling makes you a better person. To face the what we called "Spices of Life" makes you realize how beautiful life is :)
