is (he or she) really your bestest friend?

United States
February 17, 2007 2:39am CST
my best friend of twenty years(my soul mate)so i thought were livin a good life we both had good jobs owned a house.i thought things were going good till one day i came home to a letter saying she wanted to leave she wasnt happy and everthing fell apart.shes cheated on me several times but i forgave her(my bad) well its been over a year or so and i still think of her everyday thing is i am now married and have a month old child who i love them both with all my heart,why cant i get her out of my head twenty years is a long time time i consider wasted.
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virtualcasanova
@virtualcasanova (393)
• India
17 Feb 07
You need to forgive her for al her mistakes by your heat and soul. This will help you in forgetting her. Ask yourself that whether you are in love with her or what and if theanswer is positive go ahead and let her know. Because without her you won't even get peace in heaven. Now that you are married you may also opt to lead your married life but here in your case it is better to let your best friend know of your condition. And trust me once you have said it to her you would certainy feel relaxed. Best of luck my friend. Thanks casanova