the talkings to your partner

i missed you new discussion gezz :P but i dont have a partner to talk to :( beside this is my hidding place from everyone i know shhhh. but no i dont talk to many people about this maybe i should, the one i did though didnt have much to say.

you are right dear we do not talk with our partners as we do in mylot

the reasons could be: You,Him or both are far too tired, You wanna avoid quarelling. You talk too much anyway so your partner doesn't wanna start a newer topic to get some air. You/ your partner have problemes at work or anywhere and should not be shared to spare each other

Yes, I have missed your discussions:), Dolcerina. I talk to my husband but he never seems to listen. It's funny. I tell him something that I found out that I think might be of interest to him and he just says "uh huh". Then a few days later he will come and tell me the same thing like he just found it out. He apparently doesn't pay any attention to it unless he hears it somewhere else. It's funny. We really don't talk too much. I guess its the fact that we are together so much we already know what is going on with each other.

i like my partner, and i talk more than need to her..

We are the same way, except my husband is the one that wants to talk, and I don't feel the need to. I don't think there is anything wrong with it, but we probably should talk more, just for the connection to each other.

I am lucky; because my partner and I are very good friends and we talk about everything. We can discuss things for hours. We don't talk much about daily living, because we focus on quick solutions if we have any problem. Not bad after 9 years.

Like so many other things, it's a balance. When we started dating, my wife and I would take long drives in the country or just lay around and we'd always talk for hours about a whole multitude of different subjects. We would share our thoughts and feelings on many issues, just like people do here on mylot. I think this contributed a great deal toward our relationship, because we got to know eachother very well and realised that we shared almost all of our morals and core values. These days, we talk much less than we used to. Not because we don't want to, but because we've already discussed the matter or ther isn't anything to talk about. We both still make the effort to turn off the TV etc and spend some quality time together. The best part is the things that we don;t talk about because we don;t need to talk. In the decade or so that we've been together, we have always been so close that we tend to finish each-others sentences and often say the exact same thing at the same time (like twins do!). That freaks me out a little to know that we're inside eachothers heads so much!.

Well i do talk to my lovepartner/fiancee like im talking to a friend(a close friend)we talk about almost anything about what happened today,bout our work bout persons we meet,our frustrations for the day,troubles etc.i do think that we love each other and that we trust each others help in cases one needs help from the other...by the way she does give good suggestions and advice...same thing for me.peace!