what would you do if your best friend in school choose the 1 she loves over you

Philippines
February 17, 2007 5:37pm CST
...the guy "was" my friend...when he started courting my best buddy...i never get in the way...although i know that the guy has manners that would completely turn people off...in short...he really has bad manners toward people who's less than him...my best buddy asked for an advice from me...she's asking me if she would say "yes" to the guy...but i didn't react...(it's because my friend's feelings are important to me...i don't wanna control her...specially when it comes to love matters)...my best buddy and he...is now in a relationship...although i never agreed/directly disagreed to their relationship...i forced myself to be happy...(for my best buddy's peace of mind)...i just don't understand...why's the guy now jealous of me?!...he's keeping my friend away from me and everyone included in our circle of friends...it affected me so much for a long time...yet...i didn't show it...i don't want my friend to be offended by my actions...but suddenly my emotions stated to show...i was really moody and i wouldn't talk to my buddy and her bf...i just ignored them...well it's just like the same old days...because my friend and her bf wouldn't talk to me...i just don't understand why they reacted so much when i do the thing they did to me...it was like i was creating a was among us...i decided not to talk about it...(just to remind you...the real misunderstanding was with me and my buddy...they guy doesn't have any concerns about it...even if the guy "was" my friend and also he's my best buddy's bf)...finally...i decided to talk to my friend...and finally dicuss thing reagarding our friendship...my friend and i started to smile to each other...but the guy arrived...he was asking "why only now?!..why do i have to dicuss this only now?!"...i asked permission from him to talk to my friend in private...he said "no"...so...i said "ok" and i stood up so i could leave...and he grabbed me...of course my friend stopped him...and he was really angry...i just don't understand why is he acting like he's very much involved with me and my friend's relationship...please enlighten me...i really am confused and angry with the guy...i tried my best not to interfere...but he provoked me...(i gave him my best advices...when he and my friend had a fight...i just don't understand why he was envious of me...)
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