to what reason you say its enough to stop loving the person?.......

Philippines
February 17, 2007 8:50pm CST
Before when we was boyfriend/girlfriend with my husband, i almost give up..and several times i quit on our relationship.. on our 5 years being together i was the one who easily give up and not for one to two times i done it..but several times but my husband now never he ask me or say that he will leave me..never he give up..so for me there's no reason or thing to use to stop loving the one you love..
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kayesteph08
@kayesteph08 (174)
• Philippines
18 Feb 07
the reason you say its enough to stop loving the person: 1. when he doesnt love you anymore 2. if theres no respect between the couple 3. no trust 4. no communication
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doodlebug5250603
@doodlebug5250603 (1993)
• United States
19 Feb 07
I completely agree with you... if there's not trust, then there's no relationship
apple20
@apple20 (39)
• Philippines
18 Feb 07
correct....
doodlebug5250603
@doodlebug5250603 (1993)
• United States
18 Feb 07
I'm sorry to say that you are wrong. I was married to my high school crush and we were together for a few years... we were also married for two years and had two children together. We are now divorced, because he cheated on me. And i no longer love him. And we will never beable to be together again.
apple20
@apple20 (39)
• Philippines
18 Feb 07
Maybe in some instance if you fall out of love with your partner and no reason for you to give him another change maybe both of you stop loving each other..
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doodlebug5250603
@doodlebug5250603 (1993)
• United States
19 Feb 07
I feel that if you loose trust in your partner then it's very hard to get that back. And in my case it will never come back. But i'm glad i am now divorced of him. It only made me stronger.
Emerald
@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
18 Feb 07
When you love someone you have to accept everything in him but this is no excuse to do something that might ruin the relationship. I firmly believe that everything that we do, we are liable for it when time comes. So if you want love to go on forever, do things that will make it last. An effort for making this forever is between your partner and you. Let's not just rely to love itself. We have to work for it. If you are being hurt many times with the same offense over and over i guess you have to love yourself too and start again. We can't force individual to change but sometimes if loving too much they are abusing so we have to make deal after giving so many chances. And if the same thing happened then its time to stop and let go.
apple20
@apple20 (39)
• Philippines
18 Feb 07
both of you guys are correct..i agree to both of you...its a matter of how deeply you love your partner and to what extent your willing to sacrifice and give everything and forgiveness for him...but if it is too much then you have to stop loving him.
crimsonblues
@crimsonblues (1191)
• United States
18 Feb 07
You can leave someone you love. If there is a trust issue, cheating issue, ect... it's perfectly reasonable to leave. Sometimes you fall out of love. Its your choice to stay or go. I'd go if my trust was completely violated - if he murdered someone, if he had a baby with someone else, if he beat me.. ect
apple20
@apple20 (39)
• Philippines
18 Feb 07
yes i do agree on your statement but as long as you love very much that person you can sacrifice everything and give him another chance if he still do it then it s the time you have to stop loving him..
crimsonblues
@crimsonblues (1191)
• United States
18 Feb 07
You can leave someone you love. If there is a trust issue, cheating issue, ect... it's perfectly reasonable to leave. Sometimes you fall out of love. Its your choice to stay or go. I'd go if my trust was completely violated - if he murdered someone, if he had a baby with someone else, if he beat me.. ect