Help! Do any of you have trouble out of your husbands/boyfriends or wife/girl

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friends ex husband/boyfriend/wife/girlfriend partners which ever you have? If so what do they do ? Are kids involed ? Then how do you handle it ? My husbands ex left him but as been telling her now 13 year old that they may get back together.It is hurting the child inside we all can tell. When I husband ask her mom to ask her why she said that she replied she did not want to tell him the real story. The two parents never talk , she wants him to ask her mother and then she will tell her mother to tell him what he nneds to know.Now after 7 years she will not let the 13 year old anwser the phone when his dad calls, she always has to anwser it. The child was anwsering the phone at 5 yrs and up. They have caller Id. She does'nt tell him again or say anything but hello , hold on I will get him. He has tried to talk to her before able his son and she would not talk to him.I do not know if she is just trying to make her bf jealous because they have been fighting a lot lately.I know she did not sit around waiting on him because she is seeing other and her new husband (bf at the time) moved in the day the childs father moved out.Her own mother told me about the big disagreement over my husbands ex wanting he to leave his great great great grandmas bed there for her and that guy to sleep in. Her own mother told me that she would not have said a word if he had hit her that day for the way she talked and call her lover to bring his stuff in while he was there.She did say he never hit her even when he was told several different times about her diferent affairs.It hurts me to see the child in pain over her tails.I wonder why would you lie instead of just telling the truth. It may hurt him but just for a while.His dad has talked to him but now he tells that his dad is a liar.Plus he is being awful to his stepfather and me..help me understand so I can help the child lord know him needs a friend right now.I have been trying to stay out of it (never over step where stepson is concerned) but this is my family now too..I have never wanted to replace his mother but I would like for us to be nice to each other. Tell me your stories maybe I can find something that will help.