is it OK to ask a guy out???...

Well, if you're a girl and you want to ask a guy out, don't be bold enough to be frank and ask him directly, go lee way on him and put it into words that doesn't sound like your asking him out. If he replies with the inquiry that are you asking him out, he clearly has an idea and you just simply ask back, 'what do you think?' If the guys confirms his speculation, then be confident on asking, 'Well, how about it?' Its more interesting when girls puzzles guys with their gestures without really making their intentions evident.

Probably, but I never let that get me down. If the guy says no then he's not who I'd want anyway. I'd rather him be honest from the start than to lead me down a false path and build up false hopes.

well here in our country, asking out is the guys work and its out of the normal norm for a girl to ask a guy. i think culture has somthing to do with it too and not jsut rejection. truly culture and society norms affects our action so much and doing the other way around will consider you as deviant which is not good at all. but if you think you really like the guy and he deserves to be ask by a girl for a date then do it. it doenst matter what others will say as long as you are comfortable doing that then your fine.

Some girls still think that its a guys job. Which i find rather unfair. I think the main reason is fear of rejection but this is what guys have been going through for years! I would ask a guy out if i really liked him. You don't ask you never know!

Yes, I think rejection is the #1 reason. It is for me, I know. If I take a chance it will only be because I am almost sure what the response will be so I am prepared for it, and if it's a rejection you can be sure that I won't be taking that chance again! Guys don't make it easy either. They don't offer to take a raincheck or let a girl down easy. I guess they don't really understand how to do that. It must be a Mars-Venus thing.