The opinion people keep abt u does it matter to u or not?
By shoeb_kh1
@shoeb_kh1 (45)
Oman
February 18, 2007 7:19am CST
There r many people in this world who like to say many ills abt other people.What i am asking is tht if these kind of people r there and they keep a such opnion abt u does it matter to u or u just leave it and say hey wht the he or she i mean tht respected person is mad or something.And if it does matter to u then do u take it in a negative way and abuse the person of saying such things abt u and if u do take it in a good manner which is very good of oneself if u do and after taking it positively do u try to understand why the particular person he or she doesent matter is saying and having suck opinion abt u and after listening to all tht they said do u try to correct urself and make onself better so the person or others in the world will stop thinking abt u so please everybody i request u deep frm my heart abt ur opions and i will be very happy if u reply frankly plz do as thnks to all the people in this world.
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3 responses
@Supraja (24)
• India
18 Feb 07
First of all anywhere everywhere you must love the person you are and believe in your power as an individual.It's all about confidence.Iam a person who is so much considerate about what people will think of me if I did something.But as one of my wonderful friends pointed out of late I realized my intutions of what people will think if I did something were totally dumb.She just asked me this.."are you living your life for yourself or for others?n if you keep thinking what others will say or react you can never be the person you actually are.Moreover think about whose comments and thoughts really mean to you or simply who is important in your life?Your parents,spouse,siblings,friends and certain other well wishers.Why should you unnecessarily wallow in your thoughts thinking over what some third person told about you?".And she said this "People who matter don't mind..people who mind don't matter".How true?I realized.
But all this does not mean you can flout the codes of conduct.Just on your side try not to hurt anyone.Life will be very much happy.
@shoeb_kh1 (45)
• Oman
19 Feb 07
Thts right wht ur saying .But wht i think is tht we shuld give it a thought abt wht people say and think about bcoz after tht only we think why tht person said so abt me and so we try to make some changes in ourselves and then they wont get a second of saying any ills abt us.And thnks for the reply i appreciate it very much.
@nishanity (1650)
• India
18 Feb 07
it matters to me a lot!!!
it hurts me if people whom i have some form of acquaintance, think anything bad about me!
i feel so upset that i go out of my way to make sure tht their opinion about me changes...
but there are some people for whom i dont care about and in their case, i really dont care what they think about me!
@lonely_f16 (2146)
• Philippines
18 Feb 07
it really depends on the person, some take comments in a negative way and some take it in the positive way. It also affects the way the person tells you the comments. I, for example, i do take them seriously and if I am hurt by her/his comments I would try to change my mistake but there is a kind of reserve thing or barriers you put up once you know how negative-thinker this person is and how she looks at your bad traits and not your good ones
