how to forget somebody u loves and loved u so much
By nashelsky
@nashelsky (124)
Singapore
February 18, 2007 8:07am CST
In ur heart, u still dream of being with him/her, but u know there's little chance. What is the best way to forget ?
3 responses
@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
18 Feb 07
Its really very difficult to forget one deliberately, especially to forget the loved once, it is more difficult. Their memories are always linger uncounciously in your head and heart and you are always surrounded by those thoughts are those thoughs or moments with the beloved one were the best moments of your life so far and they have made apermanant impression on your heart and brain. With the passing time you will gradually forget these things once you have started concentrating on some thing really interesting to you! Never try to forget these momenmts purposefully because they will not only help you to forget but you will get more engrossed with those old thoughts!
I will narrate you a small piece of story. A Man approaches a Saint and asks for a magic words from which he can make fortune. The saint agrees to him and gives him a sentence and asks him to recite that sentence for 100 times, and he will get rich! But he has kept a condition that while reciting the sentence the man should never think of a Monkey, or other wise this magic sentence will not work!
It is needless to say , what must have happend about the man's wish to become rich. Every time when he used to try to recite the Magic sentence, first thing that used to come to mind was the condition and natuarlly Monkey used be remembered by him.
Similarly if you make deliberate efforts to forget any one, it becomes involuntarily a compulsive memory for you, you can never get rid of that thought, Tne best way is concentrate on some other interests in your life, try to interact as much as you can with some other people, come out of this morose state of your self pittience and I am sure you are going to get success! There are many hearts in this world which can accomodate sucxh a sentimental and emotional person like you! All the best !
@nashelsky (124)
• Singapore
18 Feb 07
wow, the monkey illustration really opens up my mind, pal. Thanks for this useful comment. Now i really think that people are not just trying to make money in this forum. Your comments can just motivate or save some lives. Well done. It's getting more and more interesting to get involved in myLot.
@mushroomlilitu (361)
• China
18 Feb 07
time ,yea ,time is the best way!time + another = forget somebody u love