I love my best friend...should I tell him or not?

India
February 18, 2007 1:16pm CST
I have a big problem... Since six years I love one of my best friend but he don't know that... It's terrible pass the time with him and don't be able to tell him the truth!!! He was engaged since two months ago...Now that he is single again I can tell him about my feelings but i'm too much afraid of...loose him forever if he don't love me the way i do love him... Please give me some good advice...please help me! Bye!
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9 responses
hijas007
@hijas007 (1386)
• India
19 Feb 07
you sholuld tell her......but before that try to catch her feelings... you can seek help from her friend for this purpose! all the best yaar!
cripfemme
@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
19 Feb 07
You should tell him or you might regret it forever. Who knows he might be in love with you to, not that I'm saying that but it's worth a shot. I'd rather know than wonder if I were you.
sunita64
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
19 Feb 07
You are not supposed to hide things from your best friend, so better tell him, if he is really your friend then naturally he will explain to you his reasons, Better take a chance, your success rate could be from 0 - 100% but if you do not take a chance then rate is 0% so better to tell.
_fanny_
@_fanny_ (59)
• France
19 Feb 07
If he's a true friend, he'll be the same for you, even if he doesn't love you! You have wait 6 years, if you want to know you have to tell him. Maybe he loved you and thought you'll never love him so he was seeing other girls? Everything is possible!
HassanKhalid
@HassanKhalid (284)
• Pakistan
18 Feb 07
hmm as soon as possible man.
mystic_0318
@mystic_0318 (937)
• United States
19 Feb 07
I think you should tell him! That is what he might be waiting for. I know you are scared but, you need to be honest with him and let him know just how you feel. You might find that he is in love with you also. Good luck. And take the first step.
catch_me
@catch_me (930)
• India
18 Feb 07
if she is your best frnd... and u like her a lot.. i think u should tell her...at last she is ur frnd she will understand... may be she too like u... pyar ki shuruwat dosti se hoti hai.......so go ahead.....
bogdanbasarman
@bogdanbasarman (33)
• Romania
18 Feb 07
that is a real dilemma. If you think it would destroy your relationship then you shouldn't tell him. You should give him hints and see how he reacts. good look.
ddlaurie
@ddlaurie (132)
• Canada
18 Feb 07
Do you no the old saying if you love something set it free if it comes back to you then it is yours if not is was never meant to be. You will never no if you do not try. I would say something that way at least you would no for sure. If not get over it and go on with your life. Life is to short not to try.