Serious Discussions on Mylot

i think there is no harm in sharin our problems like that ... i think at mylot ppl dont abuse others of their problems so we share them and good for u ... i think it is good to look into other peoples problems when they say that they need help with them ... its a good habbit to give them good advice and help ... and mylot helps us to do that ... keep it coming

I've only been here for two days. I have always liked to go on sites like xanga, myspace, and mylot and talk to strangers about really controversial issues like abortion, immigration, religion (that's a big one), and politics. I find that it helps me keep an open mind, that my opinion's not the only one out there. It also makes me use my head, and I like thinking real hard (even if it hurts sometimes lol). I don't think that there is a topic that I wouldn't tackle. Maybe you could make it into a challenge. Post discussions on really controversial topics and see how many people join in. Then you can also look at the consistency of certain people on all of your discussions. It will help us open up a little more, and there would be the added bonus of you being really popular and getting a lot of money. I might just do it myself...

voicing your own opinion to others, getting involved in debates. some people just like it. serious discussions are something people feel strongly about such as religion. when you have passion you get involved no matter what. i think thats the reason most people take park in these type of discussions including myself.

I don't know I guess I'm willing to tackle any subject that interests me plus the fact that the money is in quality discussions. I won't answer these garbage one line posts that ask a stupid question. I like to discuss timely issues and see what other people perspective is.

I think the anonymity of the whole situation makes it easier for people to open up more and admit things and/or tell their TRUE opinions. I know that is how it is for me. I may know my friends on here as "online friends", but I don't face them...I don't really "know" them. ya know? it's easier for me to oepn up and ask questions, admit my true beliefs and feelings without feeling judged or disliked. And, if someone here does dislike me, then it's ok. They aren't my family or friends that i see every day. It's just so open and easy to get others opinions.

First, a question: Do you happen to be an introvert? I ask because it's pretty normal for introverts to express their "shadow" extraversion in writing, and on the Internet. Many introverts I know (and I'm one, too, btw) have a LOT to say, about a LOT of topics, when it's in writing. Most extraverts I know-- who can talk my ear off about 100 subjects when face-to-face-- struggle to write a five sentence email. And that's not meant as a "judgment," merely a fact. Or at least an observation. For me it's very simple. I enjoy the interaction, and the variety of topics. In "real" life, I belong to an organization called Conversation Café ( www.conversationcafe.org ) and in some ways it is VERY much like a face-to-face myLot. We've taken on topics ranging from polygamy to stress. My point is, people don't talk much. Yeah, OK, they "talk;" about Britney Spears' shaved head, Anna Nicole Smith, the weather, the sports scores... but they don't really TALK.. about "the stuff of life." Maybe it's that "hole" the serious myLot discussion fills for you, and me, and other participants.

I like to talk about serious subjects. It doesn't matter who it is with. Doe sit really matter? As long as someone likes to discuss issues like that, that is all that really matters. IF we didn't want to. We wouldn't do it. Besides I am stuck at home iwth kids all day and night..I would like some intelligent conversations in awhile. Some days discussions like this is as good as it gets.

If I feel like I can contribute anything vaulable to a discussion (what ever the topic may be) I try and do so. I think the whole thought about not actually knowing who someone is on here is appealing to discuss serious topics. You spill your heart out, people respond with their thoughts and opinions, possibly give you some good advice and you carry on. Those of us who read these discussions contribute to it if they feel they have anything vaulable to say..and carry on.

I would never never discuss Cross Country Whistling here under any circumstances. Under no circumstanes . . . never never never

I like to respond to serious discussions because I like to see how others are dealing with the situation. Also I like to see how people are different-- Countries are different and handle things differently. I find it pretty interesting to respond and see how others respond. You learn something new everyday! If a topic interests me at the moment I'll respond-- I don't tend to stay away from any sort of topic... But it has to interest me. good question!

I think it's easier to discuss things certain serious issues, because you know about them. And health, parenting, religion is stuff people disscusss in everyday life. What's wrong with a forum?

I think/hope what motivates me to take part in the serious discussions is the desire to offer help, understand, my life experience, and insight. I don't have all the answers but if I can provide someone with a piece of the puzzle they don't already have or point them in a direction they having thought about then I want to do that. Sometimes people have no where else to go for help so if I can offer it I will. I know what its like to reach out for help/advice and receive nothing but silence.

I am glad you have found interactive interesting responses. I am looking for just that. I will try l;ooking in some of the categories you have named. Thanks.

For me, this has been like group therapy. It allows me to talk about things and get feedback from people that have no personal stake in what I am discussing. These people can not see me and we will probably never see each other. However, there are some things that you obviously would not share on here or maybe not with anyone. Some things are too personal even for complete strangers. Say for instance if you talked about a crime you had committed, it could always be traced to you. Or anything else that could come back and haunt you later in live.

i believe not all people are here for the sole purpose of earning money.mylot is a great platform to share views and also seek help on various subjects like personal,medical etc.with such a vast number of members the chances of finding someone with the correct answer or experience is good.as for myself if i see any serious discussion i only answer when i geniunely have something to say or comment on it.

I think one of the big reasons people talk about such personal and serious discussions is because they need to talk to someone and they don't want to get judged. Although they probably are getting judged by some people, they won't have to face the people. It's easier to get some imput back without seeing someone's face. Maybe they are too ashamed to speak with someone in their life so they want an opinion from someone who may have been in the same position and not have to face humiliation or discrimination.

It's surprised me how open people are here on mylot. I think it's a good thing though for some to talk about things like this. Maybe it will help alot of people who can't talk to close family members or close friends, or for others who are in the same situation not to feel alone. I personally don't like to talk about my personal life on here but if I see someone talking about something I'm going through I like to respond and tell them it's okay or even ask for advice. It's surprising to me too how nice people can be on here to you and how mean and hateful people can be too when you talk about personal things.

I think that, with with certain subjects, it can be easier to discuss them in a forum where you don't know anyone. The thought being that if there is judgement, the people dishing it probably don't know your real identity. This goes right along with the reports that people aren't truthful with their doctors, their spouses (when it comes to telling them something bothers you) and their children. I peraonlly would be willing to discuss ALMOST anything on here.

i think mylot is a great website for all of us discuss everything. especially for me,as english is my second language,i think i can improve my english greatly here by discuss widely topic here.

i don't know i just wanted to get in their private lives