do you keep secrets from your husband?

@lpetges (3036)
United States
February 18, 2007 7:10pm CST
do you tell him everything?
2 responses
@ky1119 (698)
• United States
19 Feb 07
Nope, no secrets here. In my opinion, keeping secrets shows a lack of trust. If you don't have trust in a relationship, then you don't have anything. So, being that I totally trust him, I tell him everything. I don't have anything to hide anyway. I can't think of one single reason I would have to keep anything a secret from him unless it's his birthday or Christmas gifts.
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@lpetges (3036)
• United States
19 Feb 07
well i don't keep secrets so much as i don't always tell the whole story...like i tell him parts of things and then the whole thing little by little,,, keeps me from getting into trouble!
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• United States
19 Feb 07
I don't think you should keep "big" secrets from your spouse, but you don't need to tell them absolutely everything either.
@lpetges (3036)
• United States
19 Feb 07
yep, i don't keep terrible secrets, nothing that would hurt him... there are just little things i think you need to keep to yourself from time to time!
@Zebrochka (333)
• Brazil
19 Feb 07
I generally agree with the previous post about trust in the relationship. On the other hand, I have to admit, that I do have secrets from my husband, and I can't help it. I guess, there are some things that you have to keep to yourself. Sometimes, you keep secrets in order not to hurt you partner. There are some tings that they simply don't need to know. I believe, that my husband also has some secrets from me, and I am alright with it, as long as it's not something major.
@lpetges (3036)
• United States
19 Feb 07
i agree, i do think he also keeps some things from me also. nothing that is really bad..but sometimes i think he does not want me to worry about things.