Are you angry with others ?

Singapore
February 18, 2007 7:20pm CST
Do you realise by angry with others, you are actually punishing yourself because of other people mistakes ? I read this many years ago until few months ago ,one friend sat next to me in a wedding dinner mentioned this again. And in the last 2 months , I have read at least 10 books on personal development and motivation also discuss this topic. I personally has gain a lot by being not angry with others because of other people mistakes.I realised that I have been very stupid to get angry with others, not bacause of my own mistakes ,but other people mistakes. I am now able to control myself and a am a happier person now. You can also apply this in your daily life.If you are a housewife, why must you be angry when your children make a mistake-say making a lot of noise, not doing their homework,not washing their hand before meals and angry with your husband not saying 'I love you' or remember your birthday or anniversary ? If you are working for people, why do you get angry when your boss is giving you more works than other colleages. Think about it,maybe you boss think you are more capable, your boss will promote you and giving you better paid rise next year etc etc. So do not get angry with others because of other people mistakes. You are actually punishing yourself due to other mistakes if you are angry. Be happy as life is short-only 100 years the most..,not 200 years, 1000 years and definately Not 1 million years. BE HAPPY
1 response
• India
5 Mar 07
yes i want to realise by other i know that is not good thing but if you are not happy with your husband then you can check the other that is safe way to use other and be happy in married life if you and me can meet then i can explain brifely so meet me