Does your Mother in law or in laws in general drive you nuts??

Well it's really just little things for the most part. Little things would be; she wears her shoes in my home, she feels the need to clean my house like crazy whenever she visits, she talks about my father in law so negatively (they recently separated), she is a FREAK about saying that people are over weight and should work out. She knows nothing about food safety and will clean the floor with the same rag she washes dishes with and cuts up raw chicken at the breakfast table while you are eating. Bigger things; she is all about keeping fake appearances for her "high class" friends, she says my daughter (who is 18 mns) eats too much carbs and dairy so refuses to give her milk, she is negative about everyone and everything, She has a habit of trying to feed my daughter other things while I am feeding her something because she doesn't think she should be eating it. She always has to grab the baby from myhusband because she doesn't think he can "handle" him. Just annoying in general.

Well there is a horse of a different color. Okay now you have something to complain about. Have you tried talking to her? And if you have and it has done no good then I suggest you tell your husband to talk to her. You are MOM its your family, but you have to somehow work your mother in law in to your family. Might mean taking her out first. Let her understand fully that YOU ARE MOM! Trust me we listen. Take your voice and use it. And use it again.