flirting is a stupid act???

Well, flirting is a way of expressing of your feelings to someone. Just be sure you are doing it in a right way. I get what you are pointing that flirting is a stupid act. It become stupid when you are flirting in a way you just wanted to get someones attention in a malicious way. It's like you were playing someones feelings for you own pleasure. Just be responsible, sincere and give also respect in expressing your feelings for someone you like/love.On the otherhand, flirting is a best way of showing your interests and love to your partner.

I guess it all depends on the situation. There are those that flirt privately and those that are obviously scandalous which is the one I don't like at all. Flirting can be made of course and i believe it is normal for everybody to do such. It makes a lot exciting with your partner when doing so. If those thing is done in a dsicreet manner I would say its very normal thing.

Yes it is to some extent.If you are giving something to your girlfriend or wife then it is perfectly fine I feel.It is fine.

No! You're wrong! Flirting is an indication of being normal human being. It is not a stupid act; it is a positive attitude in one part of our aspects in life. Do you think that when you flirt, others dont? or What can you say about the one who doesnt flirt at all? Just believe that as long as it is likely to do it and you dont step down other people in there, go ahead. Try to be responsible to its relevant consequences.