having trouble with making love?

did you have a post partum depression? how does your day starts or ends? are you focused only on your baby? how do you feel about yourself after giving birth? do you feel you're fat? ugly about the scars, if you had CS? are you afraid of having another baby soon? how does your husband feel about making love? do you go out with your husband, on a date or movie perhaps, just the two of you only? these are some questions that you need to answer about your feelings and thought. it's normal not wanting to do it after having baby. some called it family planning. =p

I think this is normal. So many women I know, like EVERYONE I know, goes through this. sometimes it can last for a year or more. I think it's to do with the hormones. It takes a while for them to get back to normal.

I had this problem everytime i had a baby. I think it has something to do with having to take care of the baby... and a child hanging onto you at all times... my hubby was very nice about it though. and he just waited until i was ready.