your idea of a perfect date!!!!
By nutcase222
@nutcase222 (676)
India
5 responses
@badri1988 (19)
• India
19 Feb 07
well i feel the same way too cuz.. all that matters is whom u are with and not where.. but ob it should be a average place to spend time..
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@cultoffury (1283)
• India
19 Feb 07
I don't know, I found my soul mate already. I don't believe in this conventional dates, and romance. We both know that we love each other so much and we look forward to our life and plans. So no stuff like this, you may feel I am dumb, maybe.
@mdzafaruddin (879)
• India
19 Feb 07
i believe if we strictly follow this steps iam sure we will succeed in our first date for sure
Successful first dates tips
Arrive on time
Not too early, not too late, right on time. This indicates to her that you have your stuff together.
Be polite
Be polite to her and everyone else you encounter (waiters, movie attendants, etc.). No one likes or appreciates a jerk.
Relax
If you sense that you are getting nervous take a few deep breaths and remind yourself that you are the man and that you are deciding whether or not this girl is worthy of your time. It is important that you concentrate on just having fun. This girl likes you or she wouldn't be with you right now.
Tip well
A sign of class. Never, ever skimp on a tip. Tip at the very least 15%.
Be decisive
Have a plan. You absolutely MUST avoid, at all costs, ever saying, "I don't know what do you want to do?" Don't second-guess yourself, make excuses or apologize every time you make a small mistake.
Shut-up
Try to keep the conversation focused on her. She should do about 70% of all the talking. It is a well known fact that most people enjoy talking about themselves and dislike hearing someone else talk about themselves too much. You may be tempted, if the conversation starts to run out, to tell her all about your family, your pet dog, etc. but you MUST restrain yourself.
End on a good note
Say something funny and then get out of there. Don't wait for the date to become boring. If you sense that things are winding down it is better to end while everyone is in a good mood than to risk waiting until she is tired, bored and annoyed.
Don't be afraid to disagree
Don't be afraid to say the word "no" or "I disagree" on a date. Women like to know that you have a backbone and will NOT like you more if you are a "yes man" (a.k.a. "doormat")
Don't act needy
Very few things will drive a woman away faster. You don't have to be right by her side the whole night and don't be afraid of talking to other people. Also, don't act possessive if she decides to wander away and talk to someone else.
Be mindful of non-verbal communication
Don't get tense because this is a big indicator of a lack of confidence. Stand up straight, articulate, look her (and everyone else) in the eye. Women don't like to think that their man is easily scared and intimidated.
@nutcase222 (676)
• India
19 Feb 07
techsam....learm them by heart now....these will help you.
hahaha....jss kidding
@DiorelleBabe (226)
• Philippines
19 Feb 07
As long as I'm with the one I love, that's a perfect date...but technically, a perfect date for me would be spending a vacation for at least a week with my boyfriend in a beach or any place where there are lots of sites to see and things to do : )
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