what's this girl thingking??

The girl obviously is using your buddy to cure her broken heart. the girl is too self fish and totally unacceptable. a real girlfriend is not going to treat her b.f even she just start a new relationship. Please ak your buddy to leave her soon. dun try to put in any love to her anymore. it is no worth it, wasting time and the most important thing is the money. Dun get fool by her. there are many other girls that waiting for your buddy to pick up. Protect your buddy dun let him get hurt later. and ask th girl STAY AWAY from your buddy. i hate this kind of girls really much. They think becasue they are quite pretty and having a lof guy courting them so they can act whatevert they want.Stupid girl!!!!

It definitely sounds as though things aren't all as they should be with this relationship ... especially if it's a new one. Either this girl is using your friend as a rebound relationship which she's now regretting or she used your friend to make her ex jealous. Whatever the issue is, I don't feel its wise for you to go and interfere. Chances are your friend won't appreciate you telling him to leave her and that may then cause problems between the two of you with a chance of maybe ruining your friendship completely. I would wait and see what happens between them. If she calls it off then your friend will need you to be there to support him and help him through it. Your friend may also realize that she's not right for him and he may leave her. He'll still need your support. I hope this works out for the good of all concerned.

you know what..it's amazing..i was in the same situation as your buddy abt 2 yrs back..my gf went with a guy alone even when i did not like him..actually lied to me and went out..once she called me to an office party as she didn't have any friends there..i drove something like 40 kms to get there..and the 6 hrs i was there..she spent abt 1 hr of that with me and the rest of the time with that same guy..and i am sure there must be many more incidents happening in your buddy's life..becoz there were quite a few which happened with me..there were so many incidents back then which really crushed my heart and destroyed me bit by bit..and the end result..she broke up with me soon after and went with that guy..so i guess you need to prepare your buddy for the same..but i am sure that if he loves her the way i loved her..then he will not listen to anyone and will only learn when she leaves him..just make sure to be there for him at that time..and let me know if i can help..

I believe you are right. That girl is only using your friend. She is just on the rebound. She is still in love with her ex boyfriend and most probably, it is the ex boyfriend who initiated their breakup. She is still very much hurt so she just wants to play around and make her ex boyfriend see that she can have other guys. I hope you could knock some sense into your friend's head and make him see the truth. He will only have himself hurt if he continues his relationship with that girl.

i wonder how she could do this, i think she isn't sensitive enough to understand that she is hurting your friend. she doesnt understands the depth of relationships, if she would have really cared she would have respected his feelings, its better to try to forget her, for her i think its just a play, she plays with one and just head's on to another. just take care of your buddy, he needs you

it could be possible that she's just using your friend as a rebound for the break-up she just had with her ex. there are some girls who are like that, their pride is so high that they don't ever want to be the "loser" after the break-up. but it could also be possible that the girl is only trying to make your friend jealous. there are things in a girl's mind which is so complicated and guys can never understand. sometimes, even girls don't understand each other. that's how confusing our mind is. lol =)

It can be two way around one is may be ur friend is getting more protective towards her,he dont want to let her meet with other guys and do things which she wants,everybody wants freedom so tell ur friend to stop protecting her too much On the other way if the girl is ignoring her then it means that she doesn't like ur friend so tell your friend to let her go this relationship is of no use

she just playing around with him. i think he should have this same 'just for fun' with this girl. other wise, he is gnna gets hurt.

If I were him ,I would leave her at once.....

Well at first they both should be clear on their relationship......whether both are treating one an other as gfs and bfs or it is one sided thing.....like your friend is thinking that the girl is his girl friend but on the other hand girl is not thinking on this line and she is treating your friend as a good friend only......so what I would suggest here that both should have a nice mature discussion over this issue and then start feeling J or something........