Lover should also be a best friend.. what u think?

I agree with you completely! A relationship should be about friendship as well as love.In a lot of broken relationships I have seen,it seems to be because their was no commmunication or friendship.

i definitely agree with you. my lover is my best friend. we were best friends before we moved along our friendship in to something more. the person that you are in love with has to be the person who knows you best...i am glad you started this topic because i was thinking about it...

lover is like a bestfriend dtill because you are telling each others feelings, secrets, and other serious/fun stuffs!...it's nice to hear that your bestfriend is the one you loved because it might strengthen your relationships as lover and bestfriend!...it is your connection to each other!...

I completely agree with you. your spouse should be your bestfriend. Someone who you can talk to, and get help from.

Lover....... we all want Best Friend....... we all need The same person on both counts .......... perfect!! :) Lover and best friend all roled into one person is the perfect scene for any individual.... but that needn't necessarily be the truth...... what is more important, that your lover be a good friend of your in teh first place, because there are times when it would really help if the person you love could just be a friend and listen to your tantrums and not take your words in as a lover..... only a good and close friend can do that.... I'll again say, that best friend and lover being the same person is a dream come true!! Lucky are those people who find such relationship...... What is necessary is to make sure that your lover can also be a good/close friend of yours!! Cheers!!

yes i agree with it.....a lover should be your best friend....coz if he is nt how can u share your thoughts ,fellings with him...to be a best friend is necessary to fall in love...in other words you can say is if he cant be ur best friend u can never luv him

I agree with you. If we cannot openly communicate with our partners and share our thoughts, then I see no way in which the relationship can survive. Communication is the key to relationships and without this, I don't think it can last very long. It's important to be able to feel comfortable enough with your partner to discuss anything I believe.

I think it helps if your lover is also your best friend before in life.