Who is your friend?

India
February 19, 2007 7:47pm CST
Can you choose a real friend for yourself? Do you understand the definition of friendship? describe your friend in two-three sentences. what do u find in your friend????
2 responses
• India
20 Feb 07
we meet may pl in life some as just aquintances some r friends some r best friends but a rare r true friends who just know each other too well n understand each oher fully n love each other unconditionally withouit any expectations.............. n most imp trust is what i want in my true friend
• Philippines
20 Feb 07
having a real friend is a matter of choice and chance... the chance is meeting someone, getting along with them and being friends. but the choice part comes when you decide to keep that person as a real friend or not. you have the choice to keep your friendship and maintaining it... friendship is not only good times... having fun together or being there for good times. but friendship is staying all night long awake just to accompany a friend who is heartbroken and wants to release all his hurts and pain. it is also sitting beside them without talking but letting their hearts talk for each others problems. friendship is not only taking but also giving. its not only speaking but also listening. friendship is when he/she tells you the whole truth even if it will hurt you or cause you so much misery and pain. a friend knows when to talk and when to shut up. i have lots of friends. but i can say that not most of them are that very good as a person,. but i really cherish them because they can give me the chance to show the real me and not what other people expect me to be. they accept me as who i am and they don't force me to change on what their parents or relatives wants them to have as a friend. even without telling they can sese if something bothers me. because friendship don't need to have long talks, a single sigh or smile is enough to inform them what i really feel. friendship is accepting... accepting someone as a person and as yourself. because friends are the mirrors of our self. if we learn to accept them as who they are and if we can feel that we are very comfortable with them, then that's friendship. its just like the clothes we wear. if were comfortable enough to wear them. then were ready to go out and show ourselves confidently...