vulnerable... sometimes...
By dhel74
@dhel74 (25)
Philippines
February 20, 2007 2:38am CST
Is there a time in your life that you feel sensitive to criticism? mostly when that word came from the person you hate coz that person doesn't know how to speak nicely to her coleague.. I prefer to not talk to her coz if i answer back i'm sure she will not like what i'm going to say to her.... Thank God there are good friends in the office to share what that grouchy coleague do to me... Have u experienced the same experience? If this happens to u, what will u do?
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3 responses
@bluewings (3857)
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28 Feb 07
I haven't exactly experienced this ,but if this happens to me,i.e I am wrongly criticized by someone I don't think of highly ,then I won't pay heed to his/her criticism until it starts to get on my nerves,which rarely happens to me.Logically speaking,it doesn't matter what a person thinks about me ,if I don't even give his existence a thought.So,even if he airs his views against me ,it won't bother me,as long as I know what's being said is wrong.If he is right ,then I'd definitely want to rectify myself.I might however,be interested to know why he is taking so much interest in criticizing me ,if he is being unjust.
@vangie79 (198)
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
Yeah, i've experienced that before. I do mind what they have been humming around about me coz i wanted to know if there are things in me that i need some change or improvement. But if i found out that it's just a group of talking bee's that just wanted to say something to get others attention, i don't care about them. Say everything they wanted to say, i know myself and i knew what kind of people are they. But sometimes, the naughty side of me comes out. I do something that can make them look cheap and make other people laugh at them. hehehe...
Best thing to do, IGNORE THEM! KARMA always strikes back! lol...
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@marynheart (61)
• Philippines
22 Feb 07
yes that sometimes touch our ego that they will criticize to us in nit nicely approach
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