What should these two girls do??
By kuntal41101
@kuntal41101 (366)
India
February 20, 2007 3:45am CST
There is a friend of mine who is having a committed relationship with a girl and he is serious about it. But on the other hand he is not satisfied with having a single committed relationship, hence he got involved with another girl and continued for more than 4 months. But suddenly both the girls came to know about this fact, but as both the girls are seriously committed to their relationship... it's been hard for them to move out!!
I am not bothered about my friend but I am really concerned with these two girls as both of them are really very nice and i really don't want that anything wrong happen to any of them.
Please advise what should these girls do to come out of it!!
3 responses
@rush_nvr_say_die (45)
• India
21 Feb 07
Galz dont waste your time and energy on a person who does not have the guts to be fair and straight forward.... Wats the use of crying for a person who is not worth your trust.... Good that you got to know it now, and be happy that you dont have to spend your entire beautiful life with a jerk like him..... There is something much much better in store for you..... So both of you just leave him alone.... and Do not give him unnecessary importance by showing that it has affected your life....
No man is worth your tears... and the one who is, will never make you cry.....
So get back to routine.... Meet all your friends... Do not avoid social gatherings because he is around... Just ignore him, as if he means nothing to you... Dont even hate him, coz tat way u still have some relation with him... Just ignore him, as if he is non-existent for you......
YOu have trusted someone, you are not at fault and you enjoyed the lovely moments.... If the other person does not understand the worth of it... He is loosing something NOT YOU !!!
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@techsam (158)
• India
21 Feb 07
Your friend is serious about one girl, and then gets involved with another girl?? You serious??
Your friend is not serious about anyone!! That's the truth!!
I am not going to use any mushy language here. The blatant truth is he has played around with the love, affection, care, trust and most importantly the faith of both the girls. And that is an unpardonable mistake!! These two ladies can never trust him again..... NEVER!! As such, it wise for them to move out of his life, forever!! And as has been rightly said by rush, his very existence should be erased from their life!!
I'm surprised the girls haven't taken him to task, and am not talking about emotional battering here!!
Now, for the ladies, my complete sympathies!! Please walk out, while you can. You loved him, its a pity he didn't realise its true worth, and its pititable, that he won't be able to cherish that love forever!! Don't shed any tears, because he doesn't deserve it..... and you didn't commit any wrong. You have learnt something, and cherish that!!
DO NOT LOSE TRUST IN OTHER GUYS!!
The world has seen far better men and you'll definitely come across them, have patience!! After the storm, their is always a clear sky, and the night always has to make way for the day. I say this from personal experience!!
Live it up!!
Cheerio and best of luck for the two ladies!!
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@soorajs007 (28)
• India
20 Feb 07
i think that they should some how teach that boy a lesson....since he was not satisfied with one.......they cannot have a good life with him.... that is almost sure....if this is his way they cannot be sure of an extra marital relationship
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@kuntal41101 (366)
• India
20 Feb 07
you mean to say that a dog tail wont get straighten in the entire life ??