what would you do if...

Philippines
February 20, 2007 6:24pm CST
what would you do if a friend tells you that she cant wait for you to tell her that you like her. then she tells you that it doesnt matter if you have a wife and kid. she just really wants you so much, but you cant do or say anything because you have a wife and kid or doesnt have any feelings for her.
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@cassidy22 (2974)
• United States
21 Feb 07
She's psycho. She's obsessed. She doesn't love you, she's obsessed with you. You tell her that you are HAPPILY MARRIED, NOT INTERESTED and that you won't answer her calls, you will block her emails, and if she shows up at your house, you will call the police. Stand up for yourself, and stand up for your marriage.
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• Philippines
21 Feb 07
this is exactly what ill do if she still insists!
@rsa101 (38148)
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
Wow i think that friend of your is pretty much obssessed with you right now. I do say you have to be careful with her as it may lead to something that could hurt your marriage. I guess if there is no feeling for her at all you have to be frank with her that you have no interest whatsoever with her and tell her to give her attention to someone else that might be able to love her more than you can. If you ignore her, she might give the hint that you're interested in her too. So as early as now do something to stop her from growing more and more fond of you.
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
yes, i think i will ignore her and tell her slowly that it wont work out and that there are guys out there better than me who can make her happy.
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
i will explain the situation over and over until he understands that i've kids and husband that should turn my love to. it's wrong to love someone when you're already comitted. i'm sure there will someone out there, the right one for him and not me.
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• Philippines
21 Feb 07
i think thats true! and of course, it will never work out, persons will be hurt and we dont want that. i agree with you 100%.
• Philippines
28 Feb 07
Good for her that she releases her feelings to you. It's a big relief actually. But explain to her in a nice way the situation. That you are a married/family man. That you don't want to ruin your family and you have no feeling for her at all.
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
It will all work for the better if you tell her that in no way at all will you give anyone to break the family you have laboured to make whole. You love your wife and kid wo much you will never hurt them. Sorry for this friend, you are only thinking that she will stay as a friend forever. Just that kind and nothing more. You must stay away from her from now on. You must realize that she is the agent of evil who is planting the seeds of infidelity in you. Now, it is your move in order for that seed to have no chance at all of taking roots in your heart. Be frank and honest with her and leave her without turning back. You will regret it if you won't because she will resort to making tricks so will fall later still. This scenario has taken place so many times in this world, you must learn from these past experiences of others.
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
thank you for that advice. i will surely do that. i know its hard because i dont know what she can do. but the good lord always finds a way, right..