how's life bieng a single

France
February 20, 2007 8:47pm CST
what is your idea???? put it here
4 responses
• United States
21 Feb 07
I think this question is tricky because as far as I'm concerned there are two kinds of single, a desparate single and a desired single. Being a desparate single SUCKS! You always feel self-consious because at every moment you feel like someone possibly worth dating is going to show up. What's worse is that the feeling of desparation makes someone even less attractive, so its a downward spiral. You feel desparate becuase people don't find you attractive and people dont find you attractive because youre desparate... sick right? Now.... the desired single is AMAZING! There's no obligation to make time for anyone but Y-O-U, which is great for shop-o-holics and guys that like to chill out at the game. But the best part about this kind of single is that people want you, and you're making them work for it. It boosts your confidence while giving other people a challenge, often seen as a good quality. Either way you look at it there's upsides (save money, do what you want) and downsides (lonely, especially if all your friends are dating) But its a personal choice of what most important to you!
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• France
21 Feb 07
good response have a nice day
• United States
21 Feb 07
great response
21 Feb 07
theres also another kind of 'single' !!! its the situation...wen your bf lives miles away from you in a different continent!!!!!!!!!!!!! its actually so irritating...wen u want him hez not there....but when you like a guy...your frend reminds you of havn a bf!!! not wat s*ckz more??!!!!
• France
22 Feb 07
this single means to un married
21 Feb 07
theres also another kind of 'single' !!! its the situation...wen your bf lives miles away from you in a different continent!!!!!!!!!!!!! its actually so irritating...wen u want him hez not there....but when you like a guy...your frend reminds you of havn a bf!!! now wat s*ckz more??!!!!
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
my life being single is fine. at least I'm free but it feels good to have someone to take care about