Stripper?

This is your life and you're the only one that can make the final decission. The one thing I will ask you is, do you plan to have children one day? If yes how would you feel if you walked in a bar and there was your daughter up there stripping ? Every one of those girls are someones daughters and I thank God I have never walked in a bar to find my daughter was making money in a bar taking off her clothes. There must be a better way for girls to make money than take off their clothes. It's no wonder so many men are twisted, and girls are attacked. These girls are not thinking of the dangers they're thinking like you are right now they just want to get out of debt and save for the future. I believe you have an innocent mind but Please think this over than think it over good. There's lots of jobs out there. Good Luck quatelmon.

I think if yr a smart, consenting, adult woman with a good head on her shoulders, you can do whatever you want to do and it's no one's business to judge you or stop you. That being said; I know a girl who did some topless dancing in college to get through school and now she works for a very good marketing firm in NYC. I have a lot of respect for her because she did things on her own terms without any help from anyone else. Yes, there have been some women who got into that for the wrong reasons and got tangled up in bad things but I don't think they had their acts together before they started so that's a moot point. However, if you're uncomforatble doing it for any reason, I'd say don't. There's ALWAYS more than one way to reach your goals. Take a road that makes you feel healthy and happy.

do you like dancing, do you think that it will effect you later in life eg having children or something like that. these are some of the things to consider

I have been to a bar once with some of my friends and I just can't take it how some men took advantage of these young girls stripping, pulling off their clothes and dancing in front of old men just right at their tables. That was just horrible. Now, how do you think will your parents or your siblings would feel if they see you stripping? And here's a much harder thing to ponder...if you would like to have a family of your own someday and have some children, then how would you feel if you happen to go to a bar only to find out that your daughter is pulling off her clothes, stripping in front of a crowd of old men? please come to think about it! Try to look for some other ways to earn money... Godbless...