When your love breaks up with you and he's back again to you

If i still love her, i would forgive her and start anew.

i've seen this happening. it is happening with me actually, but in a different way. my girlfriend dumped me a year ago, not cuz i cheated on her or anything, but was 4 other reasons. she is still in love( i know this 4 a fact as she coulndt stop not talking 2 me) i asked her if it was ok 2 come back, but she is setting new rules and treating me cold. ur case, depends on u. it is NOT easy 2 just ignore 4give and 4get, this crap takes time. i wouldnt. if u both loved eachother. only time will tell. as for me, i am not as forgiving. and i will not igonre. i wouldnt.

My goodness it is such a difficult one, but here goes. I think it all depends on the circumstances when they parted. If allot of hurtful things were said, it will be difficult to just forgive, and I most probably won't even want to listen to him. In case we parted in a good and civil manner, I will then a least, if he tries to come back, lend him a ear, listen and try to understand the reasons for his behavior, but this is not to say he can just waltz back and except open arms. Big and long discussions will follow before that happens. "sigh" People that are suppose to love and care for one another can be so cruel to each other. I hope I didn't talk to you in circles, but like I said this is a difficult one that depends on a lot of facts.