have u been in love with anyone ??

yeah...my diya

o,ya almost 20 years ago i came to a new place which has real alien local language which was not easy to speak for me,i was finding it very difficult to manage day to day routine due to language problom.i am pretty good in spoken english but this was not helping me to deal with my coleuges and subordinates and also with local shopkeepers,where i was managing by simply pointing my finger towards things i wanted.one evening i was simply standing on my balcony when i saw a 18-19year girl staring on me next door,i got bit concious and walked back to my room,this became a frequent routine for both of us to exchange glances for about a month.then one day i threw a piece of paper asking her name,towards her.to my bad luck it fell well short of her in middle of road but she was keeping watch on it and when it was bit dark in the evening she took it away,it took about two hours for a small piece of paper to reach its destination and it was all, we started exchanging letters first with some very formal hello massages and later with some very sweet and lovely exchanges,nights were very cruel because day time was only when we could see each other. we used to fix our routine for the day only with mutually accepted timing which resulted in avoiding many friends.finally one day we decided to meet at mutually agreed place,i had my beats at peak,we met and very first question i asked whether she knows that i can not speak her mother tongue, she said yes,and started speaking in my mother tongue,it was most pleasent thing to happen in our love.she was fluent in english but not much in my language but does not bother i was in real seventh sky.mornings were rosy evenings were with full of joy.day were passing,every day after meeting we will seperate with next days promises.life was most beautiful,when suddenly one her parents came to know of all this and all hell broak out .two three days she did not come out i was just like a mad.her parents made abig fuss over my out sider issue and tried all good and bad means to dissude me from this relation ship.finally they intimideted her to tell me that she herself does not want to see me or talk to me.they send her to some place and were changing her location for weeks.and i was trying to follow her.this went on for months and in the mean time she and me went through lot of hurdles.then one day she came to me and told me not to follow her any more because she is engaged to some one and if we continue this,it may make her future life difficult .this was my last conversation with her after that i got myself shifted to some other place and never tried to disturb her though i still miss her and her sweet memories.life goes on------------*******************

Yes although i don't know really if it's love but then I was hurt to say the least. It was a difficult experience for me. What with many polygamous people.