It really hurts

we are on the same boat...i understand you completely! There are times i told to my self why did i fall in love if all i felt was hurt? hurt that the person i love dont love me. but as i got to think, the bottom line here is i know how to love and the hurt that i felt doesn't stop me from loving again but...i am now learning not to fell in love easily to somebody which this would also help you. let them love you first before you love them. if you knew that the person you will love is not the man learn to give yourself a distance in this case you will not let your feelings fall for him. about the to the person you love its only time that would heal what you are feeling. now it really hurts but i promise you it will subside and will be healed.

Yes love does hurt a great deal and at 16, I am sure that love feels very hard and also very unfair at times. With every relationship you will learn more, you will see how people are and you will grow with each relationship. Do not be too fast to fall in love with the first person that you meet. As you get older people change and love changes. Get to know yourself more, you have a lot of time to find things out. As you get older, you priorities will change and so will the people who you want to be with. At some point you will find someone who you love and loves you. Often it happens when you are not looking for it. Love does hurt, but also love gives you the most wonderful feelings when you find someone who you love and someone who loves you.