Marry Childhood Sweetheart or Have A great Job, Good Life ,Friends Long Life

That is a hard decision because you never know what is in your way. Because how do you know it is going to work out if you marry your childhood sweetheart. How are you going to know that the friends for a long life have not went and hurt you or stab you in the back. To have a good life is really hard to do. And to have the great job is hard because you have to have worked hard to get it. So to me I would have to say the great job because you can get out of debt and make it on your own and be independent so that you do not have to rely on anyone.

This is a tough question... are you saying that if we chose to marry the childhood sweetheart we'd lose the friends, great job and long life or vise versa? It's hard because you could take the childhood sweetheart, marry him, and make new wonderful friends and find a job you like OR you could stay with the great friends and job and fall in love with a new love. It's possible :) Cant we have our cake and eat it too? LOL