What if you discover your son is a gay?

@senses (840)
Philippines
February 21, 2007 11:02am CST
You have a son and you found out that he is gay. What will you do?
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6 responses
@Drazzilb (308)
• Canada
21 Feb 07
Ask to meet his boyfriend.
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@senses (840)
• Philippines
22 Feb 07
Why do you like to meet his boyfriend?
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@Drazzilb (308)
• Canada
22 Feb 07
it is the right thing to do if its your son. If they were not gay would you not want to meet their gf?
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21 Feb 07
It saddens me, that in this day and age, we still find it necessary to make such a distinction between hetero and homosexuality. If I were to have a son, who was homosexual, it wouldn't bother me in the least, as long as he was happy. I believe very firmly that people should have the same rights, regardless of their sexuality.
@sweetrala (1436)
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
Support him in his endeavors, fight for him and with him,love him unconditionally and just want him to be happy.Try to be a good parent if and ever that moment comes.
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@senses (840)
• Philippines
22 Feb 07
acceptance is really the best thing to do.
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@macky7 (317)
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
if i found out that my son is gay, i will do all i can change him. maybe his just confuse or has the wrong influence so i'll try to make him straight. if there's no change then theres nothing else i can do but accept his sexuality and take care of him as he grow.
@senses (840)
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
ok. you also have a point to let him think of hjis decision, and try to straighten him.
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• Philippines
22 Feb 07
The first thing I'd do is let him know I accept his choice. I think that is the one thing he needs most.
@senses (840)
• Philippines
22 Feb 07
Great response! Yeah, i guess thats the first thing to do so that he would be able to feel your support and love despite of what he is.
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• Singapore
21 Feb 07
I'll wish him well and hope that he could meet the gay of his life and live with him happily ever after.
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