extra marital affairs

even though i am a pretty open minded individual, one thing that i don't mess with is marriage. i just don't see myself indulging in an extra marital affairs. when married... two people make vows before God & i just can't see myself coming in between that.

Not in a million years!!! My boyfriend and I are extremely serious, and we love eachother way too much to do that. We would never do that to eachother, and we are happy enough together that we'd never WANT to even consider that!!! I wonder why this was posted under love, since love has nothing to do with it.

Nope. Never. For me, marriage is sacred. You should only get married when you are sure that you can commit yourself to your husband/wife. If you want play around, then don't get married. Why make things complicated? But I also know that a marriage contract does not assure happiness in a relationship. So when I get married and things go wrong, when I am no longer happy and we've exhausted all means to make the marriage work but to no avail, then I would just file for divorce. After our divorce has been approved, then I will date other men again.

no i wouldn't.You marry somebody becouse you love him with the deep of your soul...why to betrayed him if you love him...the fact taht is yours is not enough for you? I thinck people do that becouse they don't love each other anymore...

No, I don't but if someone is so then I don't believe that it is only his/her fault always. The best thing to keep your marriage healthy is to respect each other. And if you follow the rule "the more you sacrifice the more you get" your marriage will never be a flop show.