long Distance
By its_pallab
@its_pallab (192)
India
10 responses
@ratburn (939)
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
long distance relationships can work if both parties work hard on the relationship. communication is also a big part of it. you can survive not seeing each other for a long time but not you have to always talk to one another. trust is also very important was what the others have already pointed out. long distance relationships require hard work. if you are not ready for that, then don't go into one. i promise you it's not gonna work.
@raveena (1353)
• India
13 Mar 07
Challenging and difficult, though they may not be what we want to hear, are the words that best describe long distance relationships. Keep in mind however, that the words are challenging and difficult, not impossible. Many people choose to give a long distance relationship a try, with the constant curiosity if it was the right decision to make and if it even stands a chance. The truth is, a long distance relationship has just as much a chance of succeeding as any other relationship!
Long Distance Relationships share the same facts as an average relationship. It involves two people who share an interest in each other's lives, care for one another and of course have a love for each other that they hope will only continue to grow. On the other hand, a long distance relationship does have its differences as well. It takes away your ability to see each other on a frequent note, as well as the choice of being intimate whenever you desire, not to mention that there would be major trust required. Being unable to spend time together in a physical presence makes it harder to hang on to, but does not spell out doom for your relationship.
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@simran1430 (1790)
• India
4 Mar 07
At times, phone and email won't cut it. The best thing to do is see your loved one in person. Long distance relationships can be trying. Your loved one is far away. You don't know what they're doing, or who they're meeting.
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@danoneism (679)
• Malaysia
21 Feb 07
well it depends on how do u trust each other... but usually it dosent works... hehe
@pinkpum22 (15)
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
I used to think long distance relationships work but now I don't. Relationships need shared expriences in order for it to work with out it, 2 people eventually drift appart.
@Angelinka (1410)
• Italy
13 Mar 07
i dont think the lond distance relationship could work..its is just so dificult not to see eyes of your Love everyday...
@myworld_and_you (1223)
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
I have two different experiences on long distance relationship and hope this will help. On the first on, my partner and I were already 3 years in our relationship before I decided to go to another place to study. We still continued our relationship though. We had constant communication and we tend to see each other at least once a month. But after 5 months of being away from each other, we broke up. I found out he has fallen for another girl and told me that he can't live with a long distance relationsip.
On my 2nd experience, I had a relationship for 11 months and that was totally a long distance rel because we became couples over the net but haven't been together personally. After our 11th month, we both decided to end up our rel due to the fact that it will not work at all and we are also falling for another person.
Hence, I could say, that long distance relationship MAY work but not at all times. It's still different when you have someone who's there for you physically especially when you need them.
@loriclaire (806)
• Philippines
22 Feb 07
yes i do believe LDR works... most of my relationship even up to now i have an ldr. it just glad it's still working even if it's difficult sometime coz your far away but still i can manage. as long as you both loyal ang honest, trust is the most important to a long distance relationship. be faithful i think theres nothing to worry bout it
@Hgateway (204)
• United States
22 Feb 07
It depends and trust and communication are the main issue here. Here is my story: My husband and I dated for about a year then I went oversea and worked for 3 1/2 years. Within those 3 1/2 years before I came back, we basically called each other at least twice a day -- hey phone bill back then is really expensive. But, this kept us close enough and share our daily life. There are many opportunities both end, but none take us apart. This year is our 11th year in marriage.
Good luck and hope this keep you pump up!