Is GETTING MARRIED really that easy?
@daredevil2783 (4)
Philippines
February 21, 2007 1:23pm CST
Hello everyone, I'm a 24-year old guy whose dreams are of course, - to get married, raise my own kids, live in my "dream house" with my "dream girl"... But, how can I ever get my dream? For instance, getting married, wherein even now, I don't have a girl friend... :( So, can anyone, discuss to me the steps, the way, the techniques, on courting someone?
4 responses
@teamfreddy (150)
• Mexico
21 Feb 07
Having been around the block in life a few times already, my best advise is to just be yourself and when time is right, that princess will cross your road and you will know instantly she is THE ONE.
The more you look for something, the lesser chance you have in finding it, especially women, as they sense the pressure even if you think it is not in your system. Go about your normal life the same way. Go bowling or go watch a movie every now and then with a girl from work or from the supermarket or wherever you get in touch with women. Dating for a while makes you meet different types and decide with who you feel comfortable. Nature ALWAYS takes its course, there is nothing wrong with you. Good luck.
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@bestisyettocome (1531)
• United States
21 Feb 07
The only part that I can advise you on is this: Getting married is the easy part-STAYING married is the hard part!
I don't think you can preplan, like pick out a girl and go from there. Mutual feelings of love should be there. After that is established, THEN consider marriage.
Your dream is a great one!
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@danishcanadian (28955)
• Canada
21 Feb 07
My boyfriend and i found eachother when we weren't expecting to find anyone. We started off as friends, and things moved from there!! Your dream girl will come along when you least expect it.
As for courting techniques, just be creative and honest. Show her how you'll be even AFTER the wedding. Don't put on any acts, don't try and be super-sweet to lure her in, just be yourself. With my boyfriend and I, what we saw in the other person is exactly what we got, and we could not be happier. We are hoping for a wedding in the very near future.
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