Does a cheater deserve a second chance?
By wing1378
@wing1378 (23)
Philippines
February 21, 2007 8:13pm CST
If your girlfriend/boyfriend cheats you, does he/she deserve a second chance?
5 responses
@Bluepatch (2476)
• Trinidad And Tobago
17 Jul 08
Talk to them and then decide.
Anyone can fall, including ourselves, so a little talk can make for a better decision.
I don't believe in cutting off people or rejecting them like that.
They might be perfectly worthwhile and yet fall a few times, so encourage fidelity and see if it works.
@jjavier65 (23)
• United States
18 Jul 08
Talking with the person never solved the problem. Several pleadings and warnings have been done but they're still continuing their relationship.
@zeny_zion (1283)
• Philippines
17 Jul 08
If you love him and ready to sacrifice maybe yes, but for me, cheater will always be a cheater. There's still a lot of guys out there just be wise to choose the right one. I think i better take the chances of having another relationship than to stick with the old one. There's no harm in trying you know. At least we did try than to feel sorry forever.
@foreverblue921 (641)
• United States
22 Feb 07
I have never been on this kind of situation,so im not really sure.But if you really love the person i guess you could give it a try.Who knows it might just work.
@pilbara (1436)
• Australia
22 Feb 07
That depends on the circumstances.
If my husband cheated on me, just once, but I thought he was truly sorry about it and would never do it again and understood that he would have to work very hard to regain my trust then I would give him a second chance.
But if none of that applies then I wouldn't as often if someone cheats once then they will do it again.
