should the guy?

I don't quite get what you mean here, but I'd like to give it a try. Maybe, there are some grounds where we might agree on as I present my discussion. Having kids is wonderful. A newborn child is a wonder to behold. The experience of having children around becomes happier many times over, if the wife is blessed with a responsible and caring man who loves having kids around, too. However, we have to keep their numbers in comfortable figure considering how the world is nowadays. The world is no longer as friendly as it used to be. Everyone suffers from the consequence of the destruction of the ozone layer. No one may stay outside during the hot hours eventhough the sun doesn't come shining through. We are told that not seeing the sun doesn't mean the ravages of the ultra violet rays is also absent. We are forced to comply with advisories like this one, because we know that the consequence has a very high price, cancer of sorts. Now, I am contemplating that I have sinned for having brought forth 3 children into this unfriendly world.

My husband made that decision on his own. After trying to have more children for almost 10 years, we decided not to try anymore because of the age difference and the fact that if we did have more children we would be starting over. He suggested that he be the one for the surgery. It is easier, less time consuming and the healing time is quicker.