more teenage bull$hit roomate issues!!!
By lovelylizzie
@lovelylizzie (327)
United States
February 21, 2007 11:54pm CST
okay, so I allowed this 18 year old girl whom I'm sharing a room with to throw a party with her new friends at our apartment. She promised me she would keep the door locked and not allow anyone in our room.
The way she made her party out to sound was pretty normal for a teenager. I knew that she started drinking but she took this party an extra step.
The following morning after her party, she text messages me telling me not to come home..I ask why and immdeately as if she's okay. she says no and so I call her.. she tells me she got too drunk and threw up all over our room.. that our room was a mess and she felt really bad and she was gonna clean it up. I said okay, just learn from your mistake and don't do it again.
I didn't see the place until monday..this monday..she threw this huge bash on friday.
when I came home...the carpet in the living room was puked on, drinks were spilled on it.. the blind was ripped off, the screen door is off track, all of our kitchen chairs are wobbling.
I came into my room..and saw that my ivory elephant was broken.. my vintage mirror's frame was broken..a neckolace I had around my virgin mary was missing (ended up finding it UNDER MY BED when it was hanging on the wall.. ) a clear sephora box I have had been opened and someone snopped around..the kicker here.. my adhd meds, half were taken.
not only that.. she proceeds to sleep on my daughters pillow..a pillow I had removed from my bed and stuck in a cabinet..
and.. her feet always smell. she slept on bed leaving it smelling of her nasty dirty feet.
my ex husband just came to take the tv that's mine from the apartment.. (she's always watching tv!) and said our apartment smelled like a$$.. it smells like a drunk vomited in the entire house. and this happened 6 days ago!!
so I call her up, quite angry.. asking her if she's going to pay for the cleaning of the carpets and fiz my mirror, replace my stolen pills and wash my blankets.. this phone call took place yesterday..but I haven 't seen her.
there are no signs of her. anywhere. I know she's staying at her friends house.
she apologized..forced apologized and told me to acccept it or deal with it.
18 little girl for you.
it's amazing... I've been so nice to this pig of a girl, and she repays me this way..
my friends are telling me that she doesn't like me and it was a personal thing. I think having a bunch of teenagers and booze in one place did this.. they're out of control and do not know how to handle themselves.. should I tell housing or should I believe that she'll take care of it?
the thing is.. I've had an issue with her before. just seems like she's hellbent on making each quarter hell for me.
2 responses
@sylvrrain (659)
• United States
22 Feb 07
I think you learned your lesson. Stay away from this girl. Clean your carpets and wash your blankets and make darn sure it does not happen again. Maybe you will be lucky and she won't come back.
She is immature, and she showed just how much.
It does not matter that she may not like you. She will like you a lot less when you let her know that you will never allow her to throw another party at your place.
My advice to you is to accept it and deal with it. Accept the fact that she is too young to be trusted and deal with her by not letting her have a chance at ruining your things again.
@lovelylizzie (327)
• United States
25 Feb 07
I'm unable to clean the carpets and fix the mess she made.. it's so much! 85 just for the visit for carpet cleaners to come out and clean.. plus whatever charges they make for the cleaning. I'm a single mother of twins and can not afford to be wasting my money on stuff I did not have any part of.
Fortunately, I have a lawyer friend who is going to take her dumba$$ to court. she up and left.. leaving me with a huge disgusting mess to clean up. It's really not fair at all. I can't stand by and watch myself get eff'ed over by a teenager! I just can't..
@MySpot (2600)
• United States
18 Jul 07
That's strange... I swear I answered this one months ago but I don't see my reply now.
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Obviously, this is an old question that you've resolved things by now anyway. I'm also guessing that you've learned your lesson too. I'm betting you aren't entrusting anymore teenagers to be responsible for your things again. It sucks that you had to learn it the hard way though = (